fred123 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 do women know if they like you or not quite early on? and if they do why they string you along? is it harsh to ask for an answer quickly seeing as some of these girls knew early on that they liked their previous guys.
Gary S Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Many can know they like you within 5 minutes of meeting you. However, if she does not like you romantically, if you are a good guy, she might try to date you to "see" if her feelings change. They usually don't, so you just end up getting rejected after her test drive. Still others are not interested in a relationship for whatever reason, and are users... they will go out with you just because they don't have a crush on somebody else at the time, or because they have nothing better to do on a Saturday night. I'm not saying these types of women described above are malicious, but it can waste you time, money, and get you rejected. So give them the kiss test if you are not sure... if she turns her head n' and you get the side of her head and hair, the dreaded hairball trick, it's not gonna be a match Don't make dating any harder than it has to be... reduce rejection and get out first if their heart is not in it. When the love plane is goin' down, there is only one parachute.
alphamale Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Many can know they like you within 5 minutes of meeting you. they know that they like you physically within that time frame. he hasn't had time yet to talk about his 2 prison stints, heroin addiction and armed robberies.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 The 5 minute rule is based more on a woman's physical attraction at first sight and if she'd potentially sleep with you. However, I think it takes way longer for a woman to connect emotionally with you. There's a funny video on YouTube from two girls who call themselves the "Wing Girls" that makes fun of how guys f*k up the minute they open their mouths. 1
mightycpa Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 do women know if they like you or not quite early on? and if they do why they string you along? is it harsh to ask for an answer quickly seeing as some of these girls knew early on that they liked their previous guys.No, guys do that. Women take longer to make up their minds if they truly like you. Weeks, in fact. If a woman cozies up to you really quickly, it's a 50/50 proposition if you'll still be around in two months.
DoesntGetIt Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I'm too lazy to google it, but there was a study done that said guys start developing feelings in 3-5 dates and women are more like 4-7, or something along those lines. So no, they don't always know quickly, and guys don't always know quickly either. If you were to ask them to decide after the first date, it will probably tend to end badly for you.
Starship Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 do women know if they like you or not quite early on? and if they do why they string you along? is it harsh to ask for an answer quickly seeing as some of these girls knew early on that they liked their previous guys. I wouldn't be interested in you. I know this within 30 seconds by reading your question...poor grammar, not articulate, etc. I am attracted to articulate, educated males. First impressions carry so much weight. Is a man clean, well dressed, polite? Is he well spoken? Women are attracted to 'men' and not overgrown boys. Many males take a while to transition from a juvenile outlook to one of an adult. Unfortunately, some never make the transition. Most of us don't think 'sex'. We think kissing. It's true for me. Would I want this man to pick me up in his arms and kiss me?
Author fred123 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 No, guys do that. Women take longer to make up their minds if they truly like you. Weeks, in fact. If a woman cozies up to you really quickly, it's a 50/50 proposition if you'll still be around in two months. erm iv had women take their time and be on the fence about me then meet the next guy and sleep with them very quickly. so what you are saying isnt true 2
Author fred123 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 I wouldn't be interested in you. I know this within 30 seconds by reading your question...poor grammar, not articulate, etc. I am attracted to articulate, educated males. First impressions carry so much weight. Is a man clean, well dressed, polite? Is he well spoken? Women are attracted to 'men' and not overgrown boys. Many males take a while to transition from a juvenile outlook to one of an adult. Unfortunately, some never make the transition. Most of us don't think 'sex'. We think kissing. It's true for me. Would I want this man to pick me up in his arms and kiss me? i got a first at cambridge university.... clearly im not educated
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Actually it's documented that women can tell if they want check you out further is within the first 7 seconds of meeting you. Or at least you are a possibility.
Starship Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 The 5 minute rule is based more on a woman's physical attraction at first sight and if she'd potentially sleep with you. However, I think it takes way longer for a woman to connect emotionally with you. There's a funny video on YouTube from two girls who call themselves the "Wing Girls" that makes fun of how guys f*k up the minute they open their mouths. True, except we don't think about the sex aspect but more the touch issue. Warm fuzzy feeling or 'yuck'. I find holding a man's hand when we walk the most intimate feeling. Turns me into jello. 1
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 erm iv had women take their time and be on the fence about me then meet the next guy and sleep with them very quickly. so what you are saying isnt true Well there are some are willing to let things develop. I'm not one of those women. If I don't feel something for you in the first date, it's a no for a second date. I'm more of a love at first sight kind of person. "instant attraction"
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I've done those "OK I'll give this guy a chance" dates......I realized it's a waste of everyone's time. 1
compulsivedancer Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I require a kiss to know for sure. That's my chemistry test. So if I'm not sure, I might go out with you and the kiss will tell me if I want a second date. Also, for guys you only know in a certain context (like work, for instance), a date can show you a different side of him and you may discover you have more or less in common with him than you thought.
preraph Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 They know whether they're "interested" in you once they've seen and had a little conversation, interested enough to want to get to know you. They can't possibly know if they like you if they don't even know you. You may be feeling women string you along because women are perfectly willing to "just be friends," whereas many men are only interested in that because they keep hoping the woman will change her mind and have sex with him after all. Women aren't just looking for sex. So they may be nice to you while knowing they will never even consider having sex with you.
mightycpa Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 erm iv had women take their time and be on the fence about me then meet the next guy and sleep with them very quickly. so what you are saying isnt true Yeah, but I'd be willing to bet if you go back and check now, most of those guys are gone too.
Author fred123 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 the question of "do they know you" is open to intepretation and girls can rationalise this. for example i knew a girl i really liked. we hung out held hands. i asked her after 6 weeks do you like me more than a friend. she said " i dont know you so well" 2 months later she meets a guy once and the second time they meet she had invited him to hers and in a rship. when i called her on it she said that sometimes you meet someone for the first time and they understand you and that she had stronger feelings for him than me.
Author fred123 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 Yeah, but I'd be willing to bet if you go back and check now, most of those guys are gone too. point is she didnt like me but she liked them thats why she let them hold her hand, kiss her etc
alphamale Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 when i first meet a woman and can tell for sure that she is into me then i stop giving her any attention. then i keep her in reserve for later on. Maybe i'll run into her a few months down the road and it will be easy to set up a date and do the horizontal bop.
DoesntGetIt Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 the question of "do they know you" is open to intepretation and girls can rationalise this. for example i knew a girl i really liked. we hung out held hands. i asked her after 6 weeks do you like me more than a friend. she said " i dont know you so well" 2 months later she meets a guy once and the second time they meet she had invited him to hers and in a rship. when i called her on it she said that sometimes you meet someone for the first time and they understand you and that she had stronger feelings for him than me. Many women will always say they only take things slow and don't sleep with guys until the 5th or 6th date or later. If they meet someone they're into, they won't follow those rules. I've slept with several women on first dates who always claimed such a thing would never happen. I've seen women pull the "not ready for something serious" or other such cards on some guys and turn around and dive headfirst into something else. Every relationship will take its own path and move at its own speed, that's just how life is. Also that girl was trying to be nice, she knew you after 6 weeks well enough to know if she liked you. She just didn't want to say it.
spiderowl Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Yes, sometimes I feel an attraction from the start but that's mostly a physical attraction which can be dissipated very quickly if the guy is not a nice person. Sometimes feelings grow gradually. Sometimes they aren't there in the beginning but then suddenly start to appear from nowhere - that's disconcerting. I think that's when you know you are in trouble! I'm divorced now but I did marry my best friend. We were friends for two years before we got together as a couple. He was just always there for me and one of the most interesting people to talk to. He is also one of the most intelligent men I've met. Sadly, it didn't work out years later but there is still affection and caring there. A guy could do worse than being a a good friend.
alphamale Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Many women will always say they only take things slow and don't sleep with guys until the 5th or 6th date or later. If they meet someone they're into, they won't follow those rules. I've slept with several women on first dates who always claimed such a thing would never happen. God, that is so true. i've been in situations where i had to put the brakes on
katiegrl Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 they know that they like you physically within that time frame. he hasn't had time yet to talk about his 2 prison stints, heroin addiction and armed robberies. You'd be surprised at how many chicks would actually find that intriguing!
alphamale Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 You'd be surprised at how many chicks would actually find that intriguing! indeed :laugh:
Buddhist Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 do women know if they like you or not quite early on? and if they do why they string you along? is it harsh to ask for an answer quickly seeing as some of these girls knew early on that they liked their previous guys. I know whether or not I'll be open to getting to know you within about 3 secs. After that I'll be scanning for the red flags for a couple of meetings but it will be a couple of months before I'll know if I want to sully my body with your touch. If at any point you reveal some hideous internal prejudice towards me or my kind I will leave your belongings on the curb for the homeless people and change the locks while you are out.
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