mrmayhem675 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 A old coworker messaged me and gave me some details that I didn't know. My ex dud not only start tracking to another guy right after she dumped me(possibly talked while we were together). The co worker also saw my ex give her baby daddy a ride home after work starting a month after she left me. She's no doubt still in love with him even though he's been dating another girl for a year now and they just had a kid together last month. I asked my ex if she was over her baby daddy when we first got together but she lied to me I guess. There were a couple red flags that I should have seen but didn't. The other guy she was talking to went south because he wouldn't even kiss her lol. There are rumors the guy is homosexual. It's very possible that my ex is currently having sex with her baby daddy although he is in another relationship. He's the type to do that and he's done it before with her while he was in another relationship and she was trying to get him back. To be honest it's sad that she chooses not to get over this man who abused her physically and mentally. She lost a great guy I'm me and threw it away. I'm not in the heart broken stage anymore but sometimes I think about it and get mad and disgusted and it still kind of bothers me. I know I shouldn't but I checked her twitter and she's posting things about being lonely etc. So atleast she's lonely after doing me wrong. She's made her bed and can lay in it.
Auspecial Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 ......just more confirmation on what you already knew..... 2
Author mrmayhem675 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 Yeah pretty much just validation in things I already suspected.
Mi7522 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I was reading your other posts, how old is she and her kids?
Author mrmayhem675 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 She is 23 and one kid is 4, other one is a year and a couple months old. I helped raise youngest one from shortly after he was born.
Arieswoman Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 OP, This is tough but 9 times out of 10 cheaters get their just deserts. Their biggest punishment is having to live with their crappy selves. Just be glad you didn't marry this girl and have a child with her Maybe she'll learn, maybe she won't. Anyway she's someone else's problem now. Good luck. 2
Author mrmayhem675 Posted March 7, 2015 Author Posted March 7, 2015 Very true she's not my problem anymore and she's cheated on her baby daddy before and she used to tell me she's a ****ty person and she feels guilty about that, so it will bother her and she's got to live with it. I just wish it wouldn't bother me anymore. It still gets to me and eats at me. Crazy thing is I haven't cried or anything since she left me even though I was hurt bad and I really loved her. I don't think bottled emotion is good for anybody but I just can't seem to cry about it, although I frequently think about how she did me I wish I didn't but I do.
sabd Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 she's not my problem anymore I'm glad you realise this. It doesn't matter now who she does or doesn't see. 1
gnick Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 Where did this baby daddy baby momma stuff come from?what happened to father of the child or just saying the kids dad? Just curious
Author mrmayhem675 Posted March 8, 2015 Author Posted March 8, 2015 I dunno it's just the first thing that came to my mind. Babby daddy came before father of children lol. There's still one thing I don't quite understand something she told me. I know it's irrelevant but I don't understand her logic and wonder if anyone else has been told this. She told me she loved me but wasn't in love with me. What the hell does that mean? I thought it was the same thing.
badpenny Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 It means she considers you a buddy, not a bedfellow....
Light Breeze Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 I dunno it's just the first thing that came to my mind. Babby daddy came before father of children lol. There's still one thing I don't quite understand something she told me. I know it's irrelevant but I don't understand her logic and wonder if anyone else has been told this. She told me she loved me but wasn't in love with me. What the hell does that mean? I thought it was the same thing. Ah the ILYBNILWY speech... Quite common but still mind boggling nonetheless.. Well, the only translation for that is "I don't want to be with you" and in some cases "You're great, but I want that other guy". One thing is sure though, she doesn't want anything romantic with you and just wanted to make it sound more sympathetic.
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