freetolove Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I've had a frustrating few years, I've dated a few guys but they're never the one. When I find someone who is "the one", I am not "their one". So tired of dating and just wanting to find my guy.
DoesntGetIt Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Girl wants boy who want other girl who wants other boy, it is sadly the way the world works a lot. I got a divorce due to falling out of love/lack of feelings for my spouse. She still wants to be with me and has intense feelings. I feel awful about that, and wish I had those feelings. I certainly couldn't explain to anyone why they don't exist. I end up in another relationship where I have feelings growing, and she backs it off to friends with possibilities of other things/becoming more of a relationship. Figures, I finally start to feel some of the feelings I was missing for so long, and that woman either isn't feeling them or doesn't want to be. My biggest fear is I gave up on someone who was at least a friend (even if I didn't love them) and as a result, I'll never end up with someone I love and will have done that for nothing. What I tell myself is that I will end up dating someone whom I love and who loves me back. It just may take time. Don't give up hope.
catchthedrift Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 I've had a frustrating few years, I've dated a few guys but they're never the one. When I find someone who is "the one", I am not "their one". So tired of dating and just wanting to find my guy. Stop trying so hard.... Try to focus on yourself and you will find love when you least expect it.
Frank2thepoint Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 When I find someone who is "the one" There's an irony to seeking and finding "the one". Such as a person is not a guarantee to lifelong happiness, the relationship ends, and you are out again searching for "the one". Basic math argues against the idea of "the one". You had one, and now you want another. What I'm trying to point out is you are investing too much into finding "the one", instead of searching for "the right one". You're expecting an unrealistic man, placing this idea of a man on a pedestal. Focus on realistic values that you require, and toss out the ones you know very well are unrealistic, and you may find yourself a gem.
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