Author LostanConfused Posted March 8, 2015 Author Posted March 8, 2015 Update for everyone. So I finally messaged her and I shortened it. In the end she replied immediately and said that she can't promise she will change her mind, but she would like to talk to me. I'm feeling so happy right now. The next question I have is should I stop contacting her until she gets back home since she is away for spring break or is it okay to text her every once on awhile to see how things are? I've never expected this to happy. Thank you!
Author LostanConfused Posted March 9, 2015 Author Posted March 9, 2015 Yo the question I posted before. I'm going to wait until she gets home which will be in a week. I will keep everyone updated
Author LostanConfused Posted April 15, 2015 Author Posted April 15, 2015 Ever since my last post I've been on no contact with my ex. Some bread crumbs were thrown here and there and today we met up after a bit I took her out to a movie and out to eat. The day was wonderful and the chemistry was great. When I dropped her off I told her I had a great time with her and it was wonderful being with her again. She came out to tell me that she was sorry. The chemistry was there, the sex was great, but she felt like something was missing. She kept saying how she was holding me back from meeting someone better. I told her I did what I did because I wanted things to work and get her to feel special and like me again. She said she can't because she can love me, but not feel in love with me. She was saying there was something natural in a relationship that made it feel great, but no wonder how much she thought about it, she couldnt figure it out. She said she is also young and could meet other great people, but she wants me to be with someone who gives 100%. It was tough hearing this, but I should of guessed things would come to it. I'm back at square one and need to go full no contact, block from Facebook, snap chat and delete her number. It hurts even more now because I realize there isn't gonna be another chance and someone else might make her happy. I'm sorry for the long post everyone. This happened about 20 minutes ago and I had to vent and talk about it. I dated a lot of people and met lots of girls, but what I felt with her was strong. Time to heal and move on. Thank you
darkbloom Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 The only place to go from here is up. You know there is no hope for a reconciliation and you now have one sweet memory to last you until you meet someone else. It sounds like you parted on good terms and blocking her on everything will make you feel so much better about stepping out into the world. Take this as a chance to find someone new with nothing holding you back.
mightycpa Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 The reason you don't feel good is because that's not closure. That's just some mumbo-jumbo that you can accept as a reasonable explanation. True closure comes from within. You'll get it when you don't care either way anymore. 1
fireflywy Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 Got my closure today too. She has someone else thus proving that she is the person I was always afraid she was I.e. didn't care. Sorry you don't feel well. Now climb.
Sugarkane Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 Her excuse was BS. I'm married, have a toddler and study full time.
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