question4u Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 I have a question. I have a very aggressive husband who Is never happy when I am away visiting my kids. He thinks I'm constantly lying to him. I told him that I would be back tonight (we are in my kids' hometown) and I called him today and told him that I would need to wait until morning to leave because my son had a soccer game. He blew up and said that he was doing to leave me. That he can't take this treatment and disrespect anymore. he said he was done. And said I was "abusing" him with my tone and "lies". Is this MY Fault? Is it unreasonable for me to want to take my child to soccer?
preraph Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 Doesn't sound like a man you should stay with. I wouldn't want to stay in something where there was that level of mistrust and aggression. 3
TigerCub Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 If he's abusive, then use this opportunity to say 'Alright - by all means, you should leave me' - and be done with him. Was he always like this? It's not healthy to be with someone when there is no trust and as a result they get angry and suspicious over every little thing. 3
MidwestUSA Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Your kids have a 'hometown' and live away from you? Are they soccer playing adults?
BluEyeL Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 She said "child" so maybe she is the non-custodial parent. yes, you should go ahead and dump the guy, he sounds horrible and he will be even more abusive. Why stay?
Downtown Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 In this thread, you refer to your partner as an "aggressive husband." In your other thread, however, you refer to him as a "BF" and state, "I am dating a 50 year old man." Which is it?
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 especially based on Downtown's reply, the whole thing sounds dysfunctional. Let the relationship go
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