Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 Since my ex broke up with me, I don't plan on even thinking about another relationship for a really long while. I just plan on getting with as many girls as possible, just like my College days. Problem is, I'm 24 now. Is that too old to just to keep sleeping around with multiple women? I'm not emotionally available for any kind of relationship, but I still want sex.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 No you're not too old. Find a friend or two and go clubbing, probably the best way to get one night stands.
Author Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 I just want to tap as many girls as possible. I mean 4 years at college resulted in around 16 different partners, but now I want to go all out before I get into another relationship. Still feel I haven't "got it out my system"
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 Unless you have incredible looks, Internet Dating hookups you usually have to settle for a less attractive girl. Going out to the clubs/bars you can get much more attractive women, since they're usually in that frame of mind more than the person sitting behind their PC.
Author Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 Unless you have incredible looks, Internet Dating hookups you usually have to settle for a less attractive girl. Going out to the clubs/bars you can get much more attractive women, since they're usually in that frame of mind more than the person sitting behind their PC. Highly agree. Only get average looking girls of the internet, but a lot better looking women at clubs.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 Highly agree. Only get average looking girls of the internet, but a lot better looking women at clubs. However... In my experience (at least on paid sites like Match) I do get fairly attractive women - for Dating/Relationship intentions.
guest569 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 I dont understand this goal. I understand wanting to sleep with lots of people but why "as many as possible"? Is it something you can GET out of your system? Or is this some kind of addiction? As for sleeping around, 24 is very young still. There's no age limit where you suddenly have to settle down. You will know when.
central Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 This is your lucky decade, OP! Lots of women are looking for the same thing. Heck many are even their 40s and 50s, as I've discovered. Someday you may want to remember that, too!
Author Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 I just love sex pretty much. Obviously I'd do anything to be back with my ex and settle down again, but now I'm single I just want to gain as much experience as possible before settling down. Hitting the fitness hard and trying to get back to my College standards where I rowed for 1st crew. In fact, I've been so hopeless and heartbroken recently, I want to come back stronger than ever.
Kinetica84 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 Since my ex broke up with me, I don't plan on even thinking about another relationship for a really long while. I just plan on getting with as many girls as possible, just like my College days. Problem is, I'm 24 now. Is that too old to just to keep sleeping around with multiple women? I'm not emotionally available for any kind of relationship, but I still want sex. 21 to 28. I stayed single and had many friends with benefits. So no, it's not, go get it out of your system. Just make sure your sexual partners are on the same page as you.
Author Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 (edited) 21 to 28. I stayed single and had many friends with benefits. So no, it's not, go get it out of your system. Just make sure your sexual partners are on the same page as you. Yeah I'd never lead anyone on, it's happened to me too many times and I know the pain. I plan on just keeping thing casual for a few years now, unless I meet "the one", but I sadly think she's been and gone Edited March 6, 2015 by Tolu2d Typo
AVarma Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I don't think there is any age limit for this to be honest. I'm sure there are 40 year old players out there. I do think however that things change as you grow older. When you're younger you're always surrounded by people your own age. When you sleep with a girl you can brag to your friends about it and get a reputation as a cool guy or whatever. After college though people's social circles tend to dwindle. People settle down and stop caring so much about who's dating who. I guess it's why popular culture portrays players in high school and college as cool while players as adults are portrayed as lonely. Nevertheless is seems like you already slept around in college (16 hook ups is AMAZING!) and don't seem satisfied yet. If that's the case then keep at it. Your age shouldn't stop you.
mstie Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Female here. You're never too old. I am 37 and have been propositioned by men 18 to 72, and some women too
preraph Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I dont understand this goal. I understand wanting to sleep with lots of people but why "as many as possible"? Is it something you can GET out of your system? Or is this some kind of addiction? As for sleeping around, 24 is very young still. There's no age limit where you suddenly have to settle down. You will know when. He's storing nuts for the winter. I'm a woman, and when I was 24, I was ridiculously adventurous. It's a good thing I moved towns when I did. If you're doing to do it, that's the time. I guess everyone is different, but once I fell in love after that, it ruined casual sex for me -- well, not entirely, but I reserved it for special occasions or very special partners, at least. It's not always about getting it out of your system. It's about exploration, both to see what all kind of people are out there that will be interested in you and at least for me, building my sexual confidence.
Gary S Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Great, let's just increase the chance of STD's, unplanned pregnancy, and broken hearts. Some people need a better hobby.
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