Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 So I think she is happy after breaking up with me and getting a new bf, but now I'm no longer there, I am unable to protect her from all the bad stuff. I know that sounds a bit pathetic, but it's how I feel. I just love and care about her so much, and it pains me I can't be there for her anymore. It's been 6 weeks since the break up and 3 weeks nc, and I know she isn't coming back, but it's so hard not being in her life anymore as I probably know her better than anyone on earth. It's been a tough day today
NopeNah Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 I always had those thoughts too. Just have to accept the fact that she no longer wants your protection.
Author Tolu2d Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 Her new boyfriend looks like a complete and utter looser. I know I would "naturally say that", but it's true. I think it's just hit me quite hard today. Someone you love the most in the world just decides to leave your life.
mightycpa Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 I am unable to protect her from all the bad stuff. Savior complex, anyone? That isn't pathetic. It's unhealthy. And if she's actually a person who needs "protection" then you must consider that she's not much of a partner. We all need people who can inspire us and make us better. Nobody needs to take on the burden of having to continually rescue somebody else. You've really got to do some serious self-examination. 3
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