I think I was raped..?

[BlueIris]

It's in the works:

 

I've reported it to the admins already.

Please get off the forum for now and contact your nearest crisis centre.

 

Got a number to call?

Here's the US national hotline: 1.800.656.HOPE

[lizzyblue]

can my original post be changed to leave some of it out? how do I alert a moderator?

[CrystalCastles]

can my original post be changed to leave some of it out? how do I alert a moderator?

 

Click "Alert Us".

[Zahara]

can my original post be changed to leave some of it out? how do I alert a moderator?

 

"Alert us" bottom right hand corner of your post.

[lizzyblue]

okay, thank you.. I'll do my best not to put myself in bad situations.

[BlueIris]

I don't know if they delete them or not.

 

If the thread continues, look at it this way... you might have just helped lots of people learn something.

 

That's not important at the moment, so take care of yourself MOST.

[lizzyblue]

I just don't feel comfortable with the fact that someone may figure out that this is me that this happened to and I'd like to change a few parts if possible.. I will seek help though..

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

I just don't feel comfortable with the fact that someone may figure out that this is me that this happened to and I'd like to change a few parts if possible.. I will seek help though..

 

You don't need to be ashamed. Your 2 rapist friends are the ones who should be ashamed and publicly ridiculed.

 

I reported the thread for deletion as well.

 

Good luck, I hope things work out in your favor.

[Maleficent]

I don't know if they delete them or not.

 

If the thread continues, look at it this way... you might have just helped lots of people learn something.

 

That's not important at the moment, so take care of yourself MOST.

 

They have deleted threads in the past. Hopefully, the fact OP asked the thread to be deleted will be enough for the to delete as opposed to cleanup and close...

[BlueIris]

I just don't feel comfortable with the fact that someone may figure out that this is me that this happened to and I'd like to change a few parts if possible.. I will seek help though..

 

Good. You come first.

 

If it isn't deleted, it would be very hard to tell it was you.

 

Unfortunately, these things happen too often. You're not alone. It's so bad that people even created a drug to sneak into women's drinks so they can get women intoxicated, take away their consent, and claim they aren't to blame because "she was drinking." You're not alone, Lizzy.

[Rainbowlove]

Good. It's so bad that people even created a drug to sneak into women's drinks so they can get women intoxicated, take away their consent, and claim they aren't to blame because "she was drinking." You're not alone, Lizzy.

 

This very thing happened to me back in the 1990's. I was only 21 - two guys offered me and a friend a drink. I had one beer and ended up feeling stoned to the bejesus as if I drank 100 beers and couldn't remember a thing.

 

We didn't know what date rape drugs were back then.

 

Luckily, my male cousin dragged me home and took care of me.

 

These are the reasons I teach Women's Self-Defense and was a police officer.

 

It's called Predators.

 

You do need to make better choices in friends and laying off the drugs...but there's no excuse for what happened to you.

 

Please get help.

[Rainbowlove]

 

Luckily, my male cousin dragged me home and took care of me.

 

 

I haven't thought about this in 20 years. I'm going to thank my cousin now.

 

I remember bits and pieces that night...but I remember him telling those two guys off and getting between me and them and then dragging me out of the bar...

 

He saved me that night.

[Maleficent]

I haven't thought about this in 20 years. I'm going to thank my cousin now.

 

I remember bits and pieces that night...but I remember him telling those two guys off and getting between me and them and then dragging me out of the bar...

 

He saved me that night.

 

I wish there were more men like him in the world

[William]

I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to get a bunch of people arguing.

is there any way I can just delete this thread or anyone knows how? this is all causing me more emotional distress and making me really anxious.

 

This thread will be locked for the time being. In part due to the OP's request above and in part for moderation review of some questionable posts.

 

Lizzyblue, if you would like this thread reopened to discussion, please alert on this post with that request. ~Thank you