She broke up with me twice but I still want her

[someone007]

So, here it is. Will try to keep it short.

 

I was with this girl for 6 and a half years. We are currently in our second break up. She broke up with me twice. Once last year and now two months ago. We used to argue a lot on small things but never had serious issues like cheating or not loving each other. Last year I begged for a chance which she gave me and I really tried to improve some things and I think I really did. I remember her saying that there was improvement but she still did it again repeating some old stuff that I didn't do anymore during the second time.

 

I am confused as she doesn't even want to talk about it. When I asked if she would agree to get back together she said she didn't promise anything. This time I accepted her decision and let it go. We had very little contact so far after the break up, I went through 6 weeks of NC. I am wondering if its worth it waiting more time and then try again or give it up?

 

Thank you

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[Ieris]

Don't wait for anything, if she wants comes back she will come back and if she doesn't then there nothing you do or say will change her mind. Keep walking... x

[xpaperxcutx]

Hey, dont wait for her. You have to find your own happiness and live your life doing the things you love so you won't have a chance to miss her.

[Light Breeze]

Basing from what you wrote, she's putting all the blame in your shoulders. Remember though, in a relationship, it takes two to tango. It's good that you improved but how about her?

[d0nnivain]

She's done. This relationship was doomed the 1st time you broke up. Don't let the third time be the charm. Just let it be over because it doesn't have what it takes to go the distance. You can't argue about the little stuff all the time & be successfully married.