MIAho Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 About a year ago, I briefly dated this woman who I met on eHarmony. At the time, I had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship that ended badly. Even though I wanted to start dating immediately, I really wasn't ready. The first date went well but the second ended poorly when I wimped out when she wanted me to go for the kiss, which was misconstrued as a lack of interest. Eventually she started to get flaky and we went our separate ways. Over the next few months following that, I started going out on more dates and worked on improving my dating skills, even if the women I dated ultimately weren't relationship material. I also improved my physical appearance and lost 55 lbs and feel much more confident than I used to be. Recently I rejoined eHarmony and ended up being matched with her again. I always felt that there could have been something with her if she wasn't the first woman I dated after my breakup.
Gary S Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 The first date went well but the second ended poorly when I wimped out when she wanted me to go for the kiss, which was misconstrued as a lack of interest. Eventually she started to get flaky and we went our separate ways. - A good woman who was really into you would not give up that easily after only two dates. It's not a match, you are wasting your time.
Versacehottie Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 Really? I think there is no harm in trying and explain what you said here. That you really weren't in right place to be dating so soon and that you have worked on yourself. She's still looking so you never know. Actually this girl I know from work met her husband the same way thru eharmony. Dated once or so and then came back to each other a year later. It doesn't hurt to try-the reward could be great and the risk is very little. Good luck
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