kylle Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 Put something on your mind: this guy hates you. Leave him alone.
preraph Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 He has blocked you twice. He doesn't want to be friends or anything anymore. I can't fathom why you are still wanting to bother him since he's clearly sent the message twice that you are not welcome in his life. Move on.
badpenny Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 Because I loved being his friend! Just THAT! I don't have feelings for him, ffs! Well, yes you do, obvioulsy. if you felt indifferent, this wouldn't matter, but theres something pretty strong there compelling you to persist... We were really good friends and I wish we could stay friends forever, it is JUST that! Impossible. Nobody stays 'friends forever' with anyone, let alone an ex. People come and go out of our lives, and nothing - but absolutely nothing - is 'forever'. You had your time together, it's now over. What you want, and what he wants are obviously completely diametrically opposite.... I will leave him alone, I get it. I just think it's unfair and sad to break a friendship just because our LDR didn't last. can you really not see how selfish you're being? Not only does he not want anything to do with you, but even your BF has expressed his dislike of the situation. That's very disrespectful of both their expressed opinions... Your apparent sense of entitlement is clouding your perception, and messing with your priorities...
stillafool Posted March 5, 2015 Posted March 5, 2015 Because I loved being his friend! We were really good friends and I wish we could stay friends forever, it is JUST that! It's funny that you go on about how much you loved being his friend when the fact is he didn't love being your friend or he wouldn't have gone to great lengths to lose contact with you. If someone treated me the way he is doin you I certainly wouldn't be begging for their friendship or going to a forum to talk about them.
Author nina_x Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 Some people use this forum as a way to unleash hidden angers and frustrations on people. For those who didn't, thanks for the advice. I'll just pretend I've never met this ex bf.
kylle Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 OP obviously has feelings for her ex, probably regretted breaking up with him and now is trying desperately to reconcille with him. He's done with you for good, OP. Move on. 1
Author nina_x Posted March 6, 2015 Author Posted March 6, 2015 ...how old are you? I'm 23 and I don't see how that is relevant.
TexasMan68 Posted March 6, 2015 Posted March 6, 2015 It's completely relevant because it tells us the maturity level of the OP. Not speaking for all guys but when we get dumped the last thing we want to be is your ****ing friend. Get a dog if your lonely or find some other friends. Our current GFs don't really want you hanging around or being our BFF on FB. It's time to move on and quit being a stalker. You had your chance with him and that is the past.
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