Author BrotherAaron Posted April 8, 2005 Author Posted April 8, 2005 Hitting him was never an issue. I pretty much just asked them to kiss somewhere else, and he decided that he was going to come hit me. Legally, he's a moron. If he wanted to fight, he could have at least been smart about and tried to aggravate me into coming to attack him. Plus, he didn't notice that I happened to be holding a baseball bat at the time. Not that I would have used it... but he didn't know that. (I was just bringing it back from my friend's room down the hall. I didn't have it to use as a weapon, I was just putting it away - so don't get started about it, because I didn't threaten him with it) Well, he's been getting his ass chewed constantly since then. Even his friends are telling him not to be so f*cking stupid, and he knows that there's no reason for there to trouble as long as he avoids causing it. It was pointed out to him that, by successfully stealing his friend and neighbor's girlfriend, he created the situation, and they all feel that it's his responsibility to keep the situation from getting worse. Well I'll leave him to his business if he leaves me to mine, and I'm not going to put up with blatant malice. I'm glad I said something, or else I'd still be getting walked all over. I didn't get violent, and I didn't have to. It's like Ghandi says "First they laugh at you, and then they fight you. Then you win." When somebody else acts like a fool and people see them hurting you, you'll find friends where you never knew you had them. And as for the bimbo? He can keep her. He's not ready for the pain she's going to cause him.
hgk6 Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 you have every reason to beat that guys ass. he has no reason for not respecting your history with this girl. he should be happy he has her now and is getting his and keep his mouth shut. you have every right to be real pissed off. its very disrespectful. good luck. i hope your pain heals,cause i'm gong through this breakup bullsh@t and its the most miserable experience of my life.
Author BrotherAaron Posted April 9, 2005 Author Posted April 9, 2005 Heh, things changed now. She apologized to me today. She said that I wasn't meant to see that and that he knew I was there but she didn't. She "doesn't want to be enemies." She also gave me some money to pay for the cell phone bill that was in our names together. It's nice to know that she occasionally regrets being a bitch the rest of the time, I suppose. Hopefully that's the last I have to hear from her for a while. I'm not nearly as mad, but that's what scares me - I'll let my guard down, and get my heart ripped out all over again just when the hole in my chest is starting to close. I can't allow myself to be tender to her, because I don't want to reconcile. I don't want to miss her. I don't want to get lost thinking about the time we spent together, because it was good, and I do miss that. It's not that I don't miss her, or even that I don't think it was good between us - I just think that she has destroyed the potential of us getting back together by being ruthlessly cold, cheating on me with my friend, and then ending up with him. Especially because I swear she'd still be on his arm if he was pointing a gun to my face. She's become so loyal to him already - and he hasn't done anything to earn it. I'm put to the sidelines buy a guy who has nothing to offer. Oh well, it's just figuring out where to go from here. It's figuring out how to go there. I know the advice I'd give anyone in my situation, but it's tough advice to follow. It's easy to forget her when she's being everything I hate. I'll end up with another case of lovesickness if I don't remember why I'm pissed at her. I just gotta remind myself that leaving me for my friend is not ok And, for the record, if I wanted him hurt, he would be. Actually... I do want him hurt. I just don't want the trouble. I'll just hope he gets hit by a semi truck, and she finds out one week later that she's pregnant. That'd be karma.
westernxer Posted April 9, 2005 Posted April 9, 2005 And, for the record, if I wanted him hurt, he would be. Actually... I do want him hurt. I just don't want the trouble. I'll just hope he gets hit by a semi truck, and she finds out one week later that she's pregnant. That'd be karma. LMAO!
Author BrotherAaron Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 Just something that had been bugging me... moimeme reminds me of somebody, and until just now I couldn't place who. You remind me of Judge Judy... you're all about the tough love.
moimeme Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 You remind me of Judge Judy... you're all about the tough love Sometimes, yes. Much of the time I'm an advocate for compassion and understanding. But wrong is wrong and wounding other people is one of those just plain wrong things. I'm glad you didn't and won't.
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