pw9607 Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 Hello, I have a bigass problem. I am in love. I do really like this girl, but I'm not sure if she likes me back. We often do things together like watching movies, go to parties or have very interesting conversations. I know for sure she sees me as a (very) good friend, but I can only hope she likes me the way I like her. I've never had a girlfriend before, and I am really not good at this. I'm not the most social or popular person, and I'm pretty insecure. She on the other hand has way more friends than I do, and... just has a better life We know each other our whole lifes. We're the same age and live close to each other. Over the years many people made jokes about us two, so for some reason other people think we should be together. Since last summer we started seeing each other after we didn't for several years. At the moment we chat almost daily and we hang out at least once a week. I really want to tell her how i feel, but I'm really scared to do that. After we started seeing each other again we got pretty close and we're really good friends. I am afraid that if I tell her how I feel, and she doesn't feel the same way, we might not be good friends anymore. On the other hand I get really depressive from not telling her. Is there anyone with advice for me? I'd really appreciate!!! Greetings, PW
HBK3317 Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 Just ask her out yeah... Don't dwell upon it so much. Do it before someone else does. In all probability she will not refuse. All the best ! 1
MJAlex Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 It definitely seems like the two of you are close! Would she be the type of person to drop you if you told her? Doesn't seem like it to me. I became really good friends with someone that I was head-over-heels for. I told her how I felt, she said she didn't feel the same way, and the friendship never missed a beat. In fact, I'd joke around with her about it from time to time! To this day, we are very close. A true friendship won't be affected by this. In my opinion, it's better for you as you either get the relationship you desire, or can move on and see other people. In the end, the decision is up to you. If you don't want to be upfront, perhaps you can flirt just a bit and see how she reacts? I hope this helps! 1
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