unagedtiger Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I met this girl online who is a nurse and also a graduate student. It took a long while to get her number. But she seem to be at work all the time and respond only during evening or early morning because of job, school I guess. She usually replies my texts within 12 hours, but this time none. Shall I just wait until she eventually gets back to me? I don't want to be overly clingy but then also I want to let her know when I got promoted at work to celebrate. This could be either her being extremely busy or lose interest and ignore, right?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Have you asked her out? Otherwise she might be getting bored.
smackie9 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Don't bother! you should be looking for someone who doesn't make you "wait". Always invest your time in someone that is willing to invest in you.
Author unagedtiger Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 Have you asked her out? Otherwise she might be getting bored. Want to ask out via phone call not text. It's been hard to have a voice convo because she is very busy. But right now just talking stage. Even if I asked out via text, she wouldn't respond due to busyness. Last reply was Sunday evening.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 If this girl is really that busy, why are you pursuing her in the first place? Now I'll be the first one to say that I like my independence and appreciate a girl that likes 2-3 days a week to herself to do her own things. But if you can't even get the girl on the phone to ask her out, it would be a drag to date her wouldn't it? I say move on and focus on girls that you can actually spend time with.
angel.eyes Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 Want to ask out via phone call not text. It's been hard to have a voice convo because she is very busy. But right now just talking stage. Even if I asked out via text, she wouldn't respond due to busyness. Last reply was Sunday evening. It's hard to get a phone call or a date because she's not interested. If she were, it would happen. Trust me on that. 1
Gary S Posted March 4, 2015 Posted March 4, 2015 Well, if she has not responded with 24 hours, she's either too busy for a relationship, or not interested in one with you. What I would do in the future... when you get a woman's number, send only two or three texts.... one to give her your name, so she can program it into her phone so she'll know who's calling... and then just negotiate a good time for a first call... text, "can I give you a call at 6:30?" If she's nice, she'll either say "yes", or suggest an alternate time/day. Then if the call goes well, set up a meet at the end of the call. Whatever you do, try to mostly call for a date, and ease up on the texting. texting is the worst form of communication.
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