rahul gupta Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 There was a camp in my college for 2 days..we needed to work on a project and there was mentor for our team...on the second day when the camp was about to end i was feeling so bad inside my heart that i felt like crying nd even after it ended i cried ...because the bond i had with her(mentor) would come to end and we could not be with each other this long (like one day) I said her i would miss after this camp..she did not reply but when i asked her did u listen wht i said she told nope i didnt....after the camp had ended i texted her that i had told you that i would miss you ....but she replied hey kid it was nice working with you in fact she is one year elder to me...but i did not agree with her i needed to explain that she can't call me kid....nd told her we will be like friends...she was ok with it...but i have feelings for her i did not tell her this... sometimes i go weak when i see her even though she is 10 meters from me...i know i love her....but still i did not say her this...wht should i do?? ..nd she is not Christian though but I am Christian. I love her alot...<3 <3
HBK3317 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Dude... Let it be. Do not I repeat DO NOT go on thinking about her or hoping she would realise your love for her. Girls don't ****ing function that way, trust me. I would call it a crush and you need to realise that's what it was... Play some video games, smoke cigarettes, hang out with friends, watch porn, study (As if that ever helped!)... Do whatever you want to do but don't let her cloud your mind. It won't get you anywhere and you will come off as desperate. You don't want her to laugh her head off at your expense while having coffee with her friends/Boyfriends now do you? Just take a deep breath, relax and let it be. And with her calling you a kid even though you are just a year younger... God damn it the same thing happened with me once... Any girl reading this would you please answer us do all the girls feel they need a man older or the same age and look upon the young guys even if an year younger as kids !? What's up with that!? Hope I was of help brother.
Author rahul gupta Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 Girls yeah do tell us wht exactly guys mean
Author rahul gupta Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 Dude... Let it be. Do not I repeat DO NOT go on thinking about her or hoping she would realise your love for her. Girls don't ****ing function that way, trust me. I would call it a crush and you need to realise that's what it was... Play some video games, smoke cigarettes, hang out with friends, watch porn, study (As if that ever helped!)... Do whatever you want to do but don't let her cloud your mind. It won't get you anywhere and you will come off as desperate. You don't want her to laugh her head off at your expense while having coffee with her friends/Boyfriends now do you? Just take a deep breath, relax and let it be. And with her calling you a kid even though you are just a year younger... God damn it the same thing happened with me once... Any girl reading this would you please answer us do all the girls feel they need a man older or the same age and look upon the young guys even if an year younger as kids !? What's up with that!? Hope I was of help brother. no bro i never smoked cigarettes
HBK3317 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Allright don't mind me but this would be a great time to work on your English... Just saying...
katiegrl Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 She called you kid because she's not into you and wants you to leave her the hell alone. She probably also sensed that you're obsessed with her (which you are)....women can sense these things. She also probably viewed all your declarations (I miss you blah blah) as extremely juvenile and immature. Even though she is only one year older, because of your behavior, she feels much much older than you...hence the "kid" comment. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's reality.
Author rahul gupta Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 Allright don't mind me but this would be a great time to work on your English... Just saying... lol no, was busy actually..so could not concentrate on the grammar.Never mind 1
Author rahul gupta Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 She called you kid because she's not into you and wants you to leave her the hell alone. She probably also sensed that you're obsessed with her (which you are)....women can sense these things. She also probably viewed all your declarations (I miss you blah blah) as extremely juvenile and immature. Even though she is only one year older, because of your behavior, she feels much much older than you...hence the "kid" comment. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's reality. nope the i got it confirmed she calls kid while texting not when talking no matter how the guy is....the one are younger to her she treats them that way..maybe it's her mindset.
katiegrl Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 nope the i got it confirmed she calls kid while texting not when talking no matter how the guy is....the one are younger to her she treats them that way..maybe it's her mindset. Fabulous!! So then what's the problem? Why start this thread at all since you've got it all figured out? 1
Author rahul gupta Posted March 8, 2015 Author Posted March 8, 2015 She doesn't have any interest in dating you. See at first i did not even know her though she acted too friendly only with me!! she touched my shoulder and pat on my back many times...this off course made me to give some affection towards her..though there were other boys ...she did not do with them ..
catchthedrift Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 There was a camp in my college for 2 days..we needed to work on a project and there was mentor for our team...on the second day when the camp was about to end i was feeling so bad inside my heart that i felt like crying nd even after it ended i cried ...because the bond i had with her(mentor) would come to end and we could not be with each other this long (like one day) I said her i would miss after this camp..she did not reply but when i asked her did u listen wht i said she told nope i didnt....after the camp had ended i texted her that i had told you that i would miss you ....but she replied hey kid it was nice working with you in fact she is one year elder to me...but i did not agree with her i needed to explain that she can't call me kid....nd told her we will be like friends...she was ok with it...but i have feelings for her i did not tell her this... sometimes i go weak when i see her even though she is 10 meters from me...i know i love her....but still i did not say her this...wht should i do?? ..nd she is not Christian though but I am Christian. I love her alot...<3 <3 It seems you are very young. Don;t sweat it, other loves will come your way.
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