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why can't i get attracted to girls?


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Ok well me and me ex have been broken up since pretty much January we have hung out but i am trying to do that less and less and i am also trying to talk to her less and less. However now when im with other girls i cannot get attracted to them even though they are very beautiful. I find myself looking for something i dont like in a girl i dont even give them a chance. Me and my ex still talk and see eachother sometimes and there is always the thought of us getting back togeather because right now she wants to be alone(and i konw what all that means and everything but you know later on something could happen again because that is what we talk about). So why can't i get attracted to other girls and start liking them? Why am i looking for the wrongs in them? What should i do? I am going out there meeting all these girls but then when i do i just stop and i ask myself hmm do i really want to date her? And then i find something and im like nahhh i wont. How can i prevent this. Damn it seems like i need a girl to just completely sweep me off my feet to get over this.....

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Because you are in love with your ex! :love:

It's normal and has happened to all of us. You keep idealizing the ex and everyone else seems wrong. It will go away.

You still might get back together with your ex.

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