chelseamoon Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Hi all. Im a 29 yr old bi girl. My gf of 2 yrs who lives with, broke up with 3 mts ago. She said she didnt fancy me anymore. So after some time i decided rather be friends than nothing. Finally we are gettin on better. We went out the other day for first time for drink, all was great but stupid me i made a pass & she pulled away. The next day i asked her why, she explained she doesn't want be a couple, she needs to live each day & be single to see what she wants. I asked if she sees us ever working on us again in future but she didnt give me straight answer, just that she loves me but doesnt want anymore right now. She say yes theres times she misses me and wants kiss me but tells herself no. I also find her checking me out or that look. I dunno whats she doing to me she knows i miss her and tells me she'd be jealous if i was with someone but accepts if i do as she broke us up Shes screwing my head up. I dont understand what she wants, she says were still a fam and wants to still do stuff (as we both have children from prev rel who are close) It sucks.I can't be all sad as it effects.my mood with my child or a ***** it's not me help
Toodaloo Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 This has been going on for ages. There have been several threads all the same thing. You need to cut contact with this woman. She doesn't want you. She is being nice to you because you are not a bad person and she doesn't want to hurt you... all of your actions are making your pain worse. Its really is that simple. Let this one go.
CrystalShine2011 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Awe. I really would try to let it go. Stay busy and know that you can do better.
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