Adales910 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 It feels like so much longer but friday marks 2 months no contact with her at all. We broke up 4 days before christmas and part of it was her not being out about our relationship, another part was her emotional infidelity and inconsiderate behavior, and the other part was catching her in multiple lies. When it was good (the few times) it was amazing. I tried to work our problems out but it was always a one way street. She later broke up with me stating that she couldn't give me what i want and she can't even help herself (yada yada yada). This was the worst breakup I've had to go through and NC has really helped me feel better than I did just a month ago. I completely fell off the map, got rid of all my social media and took my pages down because I do not want to have any sort of chance of seeing something I am emotionally not ready for. The only thing that's been keeping me sane is my recent promotion at work and my 5 classes of graduate school. My mind has been occupied with other things and I am focusing on my career. The recent success doesn't take away for the moments of absolute sadness though and I hope to really have that moment soon where I just say to myself "who cares what the **** she's doing?"
darkbloom Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I think it will just hit you one day when enough time is passed. We are in the exact same time of NC. We broke up the Monday before Christmas. I am so much better than even a month ago. But I still miss him sometimes and wonder what he's doing. I'm still a little mad even that he cheated and that he hasn't called. I just keep looking at the positives. That's all I can do and focus my energy worrying about him and focus it on myself.
LostOne1 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I posted here about 2 years ago... I've healed now for sure. I don't even think about my ex at all. However, the good or bad (depends on how you see it fit) is that I am still single after the breakup. Part of it is my own choice, I really love the freedom I have now. However, at the same time I miss doing stuff with someone. I've been meeting new people and it's helped out a lot. But time WILL heal everything.... In the time of my breakup, I finished a degree program and got an amazing job this year. So far things are going pretty well!!! So just use and see me as an example as time goes on.......... it does get much better. I promise you that.. no lies!
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