jasxo Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I feel like relationships aren't even worth it if it's inevitable. What do you think
NJ123 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I feel like relationships aren't even worth it if it's inevitable. What do you think Women have caught up with men these days in the cheating department. More women are cheating these days than in the past. Not all men & not all women will cheat, but a lot do.
Author jasxo Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 Correct, but I am a heterosexual woman, therefore I am interested in if most men do.
NJ123 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Correct, but I am a heterosexual woman, therefore I am interested in if most men do. As said, a lot do & a lot don't. But not most.
Carenth Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Both genders cheat, they are called ****ty people. This isn't gender specific. I have never cheated in my life. 2
Author jasxo Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 I was replying to Woggle. Thanks for your response!
carhill Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Do MOST men cheat? (Men answer ) I feel like relationships aren't even worth it if it's inevitable. What do you think Whether they admit or not, most men are unfaithful at some point in their lives. We also lie. What remains is whether cheating and lying are core behaviors. For example, I might lie to the cop about the marijuana under the front seat but would I lie to my wife about being at work when I'm really at a bar hitting on chicks? Or neither. Maybe I was only doing 10 over the speed limit Anyway, when you boil it down, humans are a deceptive bunch, whether we openly admit it or not. Spend some time in the business world and whoa, it all begins to make sense. Relationships are always a risk. Always. And forever. It's up to each of us to assess for risks and examine our own risk tolerance and make choices which respect our own boundaries.
Satu Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 The vast majority of people don't cheat, regardless of gender. Cheaters of either gender are a small minority.
bcnvicky Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 The vast majority of people don't cheat, regardless of gender. Cheaters of either gender are a small minority. I don't think so. Also, Statistics say something different. Both genders cheat equally. I cannot say a percentage or so, but there are many, many cheaters out there, but there are also many, many faithful honest people. 1
Mi7522 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I don't think so. Also, Statistics say something different. Both genders cheat equally. I cannot say a percentage or so, but there are many, many cheaters out there, but there are also many, many faithful honest people. Maybe more emontionally cheat but they don't physically cheat. I'm not sure what is worse
bcnvicky Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Maybe more emontionally cheat but they don't physically cheat. I'm not sure what is worse I've only seen statistics about physical cheating because I guess it's pretty difficult to get any statistics to emotional cheating I've seen studies that suggest that 30-60% of the people in the US have cheated in a relationship, while in Germany numbers suggested 40-60%. Can't say if those numbers are valid of course (social bias might play a big role... not everyone is willing to admit they cheated).
carhill Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Here's a typical anecdote.... man never admits to cheating. His daughter tells me she, as an adolescent, saw him kissing and feeling up another woman at a party at their house, some 30+ years ago. Do most men cheat? Is the daughter lying? Interestingly, she admitted to her own affair in her 25 year marriage, to me, and requested I not mention a word of it to her father. Is she manipulating me? Does she ply me with sexual innuendos to secure my silence? Did I betray her marriage? Oh, what a tangled web we weave. That's one of hundreds. Live awhile and it all becomes more clear, or confusing OP, I'll leave to the others with more clear and unmuddied opinions to guide you. I've seen too much of life. Probably an opinion you should ignore.
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