drewdude Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 Hello LS Been hanging out with this girl I met online since December. Though it was very sparingly at first, as in once every few weeks. Since mid January we've been hanging out often and communicating lots. and early last month, I actually asked her out on a Sushi date so she could actually know my intentions. We had a great date. I finally went in for a kiss on the lips and I got it. A week after that, we went to an amusement park and had a great time. At the end of the night leaving her off, I went in for another kiss on the lips but I felt her tongue so we had a brief makeout session. There has never been nothing shared up on an emotional level up until last week, when she told me she might interview for a position at her work that involves her going away for 9 months. I landed up telling her how I felt about her and supported her career options(majority of my friends told me to do so before it was too late). And I did it because hey I wont lie, I really like/have feelings for this girl. She told me she was glad that I told her how I felt and the reason she made a decision like this is due to the fact that she hasn't been in a relationship in a couple years. And assured me it was nothing against me or anything personal. But now she feels like she can tell me anything and that is one of the most important things she looks for when she associates herself with someone. So after hearing all that, I don't respond for hours. She texts me later that day inviting me to her bday shindig at a bar. Which I assumed she had already planned with friends but said I can pick her up. I go pick her up, meet her friends for the very first time and we have a blast. She mentions how she really liked how I got along with one of her friends in particular. At the end of the night, I make out with her and she doesn't pull away or reject. Also, the day after was her audition for the new job but she didn't make the cut. She is still texting me throughout the day and whatnot. What should I do next? I am out of the friendzone right? This one is still hard to read and I could really use advice. Thank you very much.
GTR King Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 If you have been texting/phones calls for over 2 months and usually see her once a week etc and If she keeps accepting your invites to do something and kisses you then you are passed the friend zone stage. Just keep at it & see where things go 1
Author drewdude Posted March 3, 2015 Author Posted March 3, 2015 I guess that seems like the best bet. I havent tried asking her out again yet. This Wednesday will be a week since I went to her bday thing.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 If you're making out with her and she invited you to meet her friends, you're not even close to the friendzone... Lol. Keep asking her out on dates! Good luck!
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