disconcertainly Posted April 7, 2005 Posted April 7, 2005 Can anyone in here help me understand my crazy dream. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 2 and half years in june. Last night I had a Dream that my current boyfriend was holding an engagement ring for me but it was not from him...it was from my ex whom i have had little contact with since our split 4 years ago. Before I could get the words out of my mouth to reget the ring from my ex that my current boyfriend had for some reason, my ex's mother pops out and yells omg this is so great blah blah blah. I never could get the words out off my mouth to reget the ring and before i knew i was walking down the hall in a big white dress.......my current boyfriend watching...then i woke up and i was filled with regret. and i realized that I think my current boyfriend is the one. I was filled with such regret when i awoke that it was awful. I suppose the dream made me realize how much i love my man but still i cant understand what the heck my ex had to do with the dream. I totally want to scream to my man that I would marry him anytime but i know that would totally scare him away. So I guess i want your take on my crazy dream. Thanks!
Conundrum Posted April 7, 2005 Posted April 7, 2005 It's just a dream. I wouldn't think too much of it. At least it reconfirmed your feelings for your current boyfriend....or did it...... MUHAHAHAHAHA!! Sorry, couldn't help myself. But seriously, just let it go.
westernxer Posted April 7, 2005 Posted April 7, 2005 It's just a dream, that's all. However, some dreams are products of fear and unfulfilled wishes. Others are reflections of our state of mind during waking moments of trauma or joy. I think your dream is a gut check... it's a reinforcement of your feelings for your current boyfriend versus how you'd feel if you were stuck with your ex. It's a release of your innermost fears that you dare not mention to anyone, and the emotional torment is horrible. The monster of dream wears many faces. In this case it happened to be your ex. Now you know.
Author disconcertainly Posted April 7, 2005 Author Posted April 7, 2005 Thanks for the reply. That is the first dream i have ever had that I awoke and felt like that. It is just very hard for me to explain.
westernxer Posted April 7, 2005 Posted April 7, 2005 I've had dreams like that, where I wake up in the middle of the night. Doesn't happen often, but it's cool when it does. There has to be an outlet somewhere... sometimes it occurs in dreams.
Fuzzy Chickens Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 And I've had dreams in which Pumpkins grew on trees. It's the mind deprived of oxygen. It means nothing.
Author disconcertainly Posted April 14, 2005 Author Posted April 14, 2005 I don't really think the reason people dream is b/c the brain is not getting enough oxygen. I would have to disagree on that assumption.
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