Jerseyguyy Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 Going through many roller coaster emotions these past few weeks.. Only things seeming to help me greatly is insight from close friends an the LS legends. Chitown, Tara, egojoo, etc..aswell as the newbies doing the terrible things i once did before all this helpful insight.. I too broke NC twice before an the only thing it made me feel was.. WORSE.. I too hoped NC would get my ex back ( before i knew she was a lying, trifling, no good.. You get the picture) and it gave me false hope which made me feel WORSE I too indulged in some breadcrumbs and slices which made me EXTREMELY WORSE Some may think posters are bitter negative nellys and believe me i once thought the same til reality slapped me in the face " these people are right.. Im a idiot" I too still have urges to break NC even knowing my ex is filthy but believe me NO good comes from it. Listen.. They are only here to help. Although i still have a long way to go til recovery i now see the light even though i feel its light years away. I know you think she's/he's an angel and your story is different.. I browsed thru hundreds of posts on here an literally every story is the exact same as mine. TAKE THEM OF THAT PEDESTAL. THANKS GOOD FOLKS OF LS.. Wish i found this site soon as i was ditched.. Wouldve preserved alotta my self respect.. Along with not being kept as plan b an kept on the infamous string. But hey it is what it is and you new posters are one up from me. TAKE THE ADVICE. 9
unforgotten Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 Unfortunately people learn through experience. It's not bad to break NC IMO. You'll see for yourself in what hell it puts you. But then just make sure you don't make the same mistake twice. 1
Chi townD Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 LOL! Never considered myself an LS Legend...but, thanks dude! You made my day! I agree with you. MOST girls don't want to be up on a pedestal. They want to be by your side as your partner and equal. Walking together. NC is DAMN hard. It's not easy at all. It always feels like you have a little more to say and you WANT to say them, but you don't want to break NC either. So, you're always under a constant battle with yourself. But, if you use NC correctly and apply positive changes to your life, then you ARE going to heal from your heartbreak more quickly. And I can always tell when folks come back here and share their success stories. They just seem so much more happier than when they first got here. Congrats dude! Keep up the good work!
SoThatHappened Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 Hey, don't beat yourself up. I was strung along for 2 months, just to get back together with her and then have her rip my heart out all over again. I didn't know about NC or LoveShack the first time... but I did the second time. Saved my dignity and cut that lying/cheating hose-bag out of my life completely. Best thing I've done in years. I would have probably let her string me along if it wasn't for this site. So, go easy on yourself. Now you know. Now you're better off and better-equipped for the future. Good for you.
quattrob Posted March 3, 2015 Posted March 3, 2015 I first joined this forum back in January and I posted my story, got some good support and insight (I didn't dwell about my breakup for too long). Now I'm moving on and feel like I don't need her anymore. So I'm here everyday to help and share my advices to people who I feel are in need of it. This forum does help you if you actually listen to people on here.
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