mrmayhem675 Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 My ex dumped me three and a half months ago, exactly why I'm not sure. She said she just didn't feel the same way and brought up a bunch of excuses that weren't really valid enough for a breakup in my opinion. She said she was going to miss me and admitted she'd be jealous if she saw me with another girl. She'd broken up with me before and wanted me back so I asked her if this was really it and she said she didn't know. I texted her as kit two or three weeks later and asked her if she was sure she knew how she felt about me. She ignored me so about a week later I told her I loved her and her kids very much and she finally replied and basically told me to move on. I asked her when she stopped caring about me and she said "I dunno", and then "it happens". I later found out what I believe happened although she won't admit it. A month ago I texted her after a period of about a month and a half no contact because I really had to, she had my mail. She said she was talking to some guy, and had been for a month. I believe they were talking while we were together because let's be honest it's very hard to find a guy when you have two kids, and that would explain her acting funny and the blindside breakup. After I accused her we went at it through text messages. I apologized about a week later not for what I said but how I said it. She said sorry for a couple things and told me to move on. I told her I had been talking to other girls for a while now, which isn't a lie but nothing serious has come of it. That was the last message I sent and we haven't communicated in over a month. I think her age the new guy went south already. I wonder if she's bothered that I been talking to other girls, she did admit she would be and she's an incredibly jealous person. She used to get mad at female cashiers if they were polite to me. I got a friend request from an obviously fake Facebook account last week and I was the first person they added, and they deleted the account within an hour. I'm assuming it was her because I have her blocked and nothing else makes sense. I wonder if her mind is wondering what I'm doing. My plan is to move on, and hopefully if she changes her mind I'll be over her and not want to go back.
FancyFace Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 It could have been her, and then what? You are still broken up. If she is/was bothered, and then what? You are still broken up. Wondering about her is natural given the circumstances but at the end of the day it wont help you one bit. Also if you are knowingly accepting dodgy friend requests on facebook then that means you are not invested in NC and what it will achieve. Instead of focusing on her and what she is thinking and doing, focus on yourself.
sabd Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 FancyFace is right - you are still broken up. Maybe she IS bothered and jealous and wanting to see what you're up to. Doesn't matter. Carry on with your plan of moving on, you really deserve so much better than this girl who betrayed you.
Michelle ma Belle Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 My ex dumped me three and a half months ago, exactly why I'm not sure. She said she just didn't feel the same way and brought up a bunch of excuses that weren't really valid enough for a breakup in my opinion. She said she was going to miss me and admitted she'd be jealous if she saw me with another girl. She'd broken up with me before and wanted me back so I asked her if this was really it and she said she didn't know. I texted her as kit two or three weeks later and asked her if she was sure she knew how she felt about me. She ignored me so about a week later I told her I loved her and her kids very much and she finally replied and basically told me to move on. I asked her when she stopped caring about me and she said "I dunno", and then "it happens". I later found out what I believe happened although she won't admit it. A month ago I texted her after a period of about a month and a half no contact because I really had to, she had my mail. She said she was talking to some guy, and had been for a month. I believe they were talking while we were together because let's be honest it's very hard to find a guy when you have two kids, and that would explain her acting funny and the blindside breakup. After I accused her we went at it through text messages. I apologized about a week later not for what I said but how I said it. She said sorry for a couple things and told me to move on. I told her I had been talking to other girls for a while now, which isn't a lie but nothing serious has come of it. That was the last message I sent and we haven't communicated in over a month. I think her age the new guy went south already. I wonder if she's bothered that I been talking to other girls, she did admit she would be and she's an incredibly jealous person. She used to get mad at female cashiers if they were polite to me. I got a friend request from an obviously fake Facebook account last week and I was the first person they added, and they deleted the account within an hour. I'm assuming it was her because I have her blocked and nothing else makes sense. I wonder if her mind is wondering what I'm doing. My plan is to move on, and hopefully if she changes her mind I'll be over her and not want to go back. This is all you can and should do. Simple. The rest of this is irrelevant at this point. You can't control anything except YOUR actions which is why you need to block/avoid/ignore/delete any communication with her if you want to get off this roller coaster ride with her, heal and move on. The whole thing sounds kind of childish if you ask me. You're probably both better off without each other. Good luck.
mightycpa Posted March 2, 2015 Posted March 2, 2015 I wonder if her mind is wondering what I'm doing.Probably not. My plan is to move on, and hopefully if she changes her mind I'll be over her and not want to go back. Atta pepper!
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