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How to respond to a brush off.. or not?


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Been online dating and met one man twice. He texts me saying sorry he's not been in contact, he's been busy and will get busier.

 

That's a brush off, right?

 

How do I respond?

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Don't respond at all. There is no need to reply.

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Agreed. There is no point in trying to construct the perfect response. He won't care and neither should you. Save your dignity and just chalk this one up as a bust and move on.

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It's typical of people not to be so blunt. He got a better offer somewhere else....that is the name of the game. Most have several dates with others, but they are not going to tell you that.

 

When you don't hear from them the next day, or you have to initiate, or they start giving excuses like being "busy", that means "not interested". Take it as your que to move on.

 

And no there is no need to respond.

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Been online dating and met one man twice. He texts me saying sorry he's not been in contact, he's been busy and will get busier.

 

That's a brush off, right?

 

How do I respond?

 

Yes Berry..that's a brush off. Sorry. :(

 

How do you respond? You DON'T.

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Or you could go with some variation of:

 

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