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I've been ignoring my "ex" for the past couple weeks. I unfollowed him, defriended him, deleted our public pictures, and even TOLD him to leave me alone because im trying to move on. He says he cares about me and my feelings and will always be here for me if needed. I told him I needed my space. He presumed to text me the next day asking if I wanted to go to a concert with him. The next weekend he texted me asking if I'm not mad to consider hanging with him and his friend. I ignore again. This time he calls me out on "really you're gonna ignore me". And then this past Friday he called me but I ignored. I had him blocked for a couple days and I unblocked him. Do I tell him AGAIN that I don't want him bothering me.. Or should I block him so he would have to find a way to contact. Or just ignore him and him knowing he's ignored. I dont know why he keeps talking to me when he has another chick and he's telling his friends he doesn't want to hang anymore

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His actions are just proving to you how little he respects you and how controlling he is. A decent person wouldn't ignore your request for space. He's obvioisly not that person. Personally, I would just block him and continue to ignore him. You said what you needed to say. There's no point in repeating yourself. He's merely trying to engage you in some kind of conversation, so be careful about taking the bait. What he's doing isn't flattering. He just doesn't like losing control of you. He sounds like bad news, if you ask me. It's good that you're no longer with him.

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He can't believe it. You're actually detaching, and he's just now coming to terms with what that means. He'll probably get angry and at that point, maybe he'll leave you alone.

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