Vuvu Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 Ok. I've had a bad time getting over this breakup. She's with someone else. However, I know she is sad that we are not talking. She messages me and I never reply. I feel bad about it. Am I being immature? I told her I needed a break but it's not stopped her. She feels guilty and wants me to tell it's all ok. But it's not. I'm heartbroken. I like it when she contacts me because it makes me feel like she still wants me. But it's not healthy and she has caused me a lot of pain. She last messaged me a month ago. And now I'm worried that she hates me. Plus I have started seeing a girl that my ex doesn't like - she will probably know I'm seeing her. Do I: A) contact her and tell it's not working and I wish her all the best? Or B) don't say anything - I'll only show I'm still upset and still thinking about her and silence is the best form of communication?
Ruby65 Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 You have a new girlfriend. I'd let her decide whether or not you should be in contact with an ex!
privategal Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 No good can come of talking. Doesn't matter if she likes your new gf. Pretend your ex is dead. Meaning she broke your heart, further stomped on you for not allowing you to have the time and space to heal. So what she's sad. She deserves to be sad. She hurt you. Now she has to accept when you hurt someone you dont get the comfort of staying in their life and having the dumpee help you get over them and your guilt. Stay SILENT forever. Thats what she deserves and you deserve the chance to heal and move on. Block her from everything. Her knowing whats going in in your life is still breaking contact. Get rid of all avenues for her to reach you. Its done.
bubbaganoosh Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 She's your ex. She's with another guy. Why would you care if she doesn't like your current girlfriend? It comes down to this, She moved on but doesn't want you to. Leave it alone. There's no need to keep in contact with her. The more you do that, the more you'll start comparing your current gf with the old gf and you'll just be asking for a ton of trouble. Leave a sleeping dog lie.
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