nachoqtpie Posted April 6, 2005 Posted April 6, 2005 Okay, so one of my best friends just broke up with his girl. They'd been together for a year and a half, and he realyl did love her. I feel absolutly horrible about this. The reason that we got to be such good friends is because I had the hugest crush on him and we started talkin. We both were in relationships, and he was totally cool about it. He would always razz me about the way that I go through men like he does underwear, and I would always razz him about bein the old stick in the mudd stayin at home with his old lady. We became great friends. Immediatly after they broke up he started being a flirty lil man-whore. We talked about it and he said that it just made him feel good to know that chicks still wanted him. Not uncommon. Well, we ended up goin out on Friday to a movie and back to his house to watch TV and stuff. We had a great time, drinkin coffee and talking about our prospective geek speak. The next day it was really nice. We talked about how nice it was to hang out, this that and the other, then he would flip to being depressed about his break-up. Just flip flop back and forth. Well, on that Sunday he was doing the dreaded exchange of final crap. Ever since then I haven't been able to get ahold of him. He did send me a short e-mail that he just couldn't do it, that his head was messed up, blah blah. So I send him an e-mail back tellin him how he is my friend first and foremost and everything else was at the wayside in regards to any romantic feelings that I have towards him. So, today I get an e-mail from him saying that he doesn't want me to come over this weekend *We had plans to go to the art museum* and that he wanted to thank me for being such a great friend. How can I help him get over this rough time in his life. It absolutly kills me that he is hurting so much and I just want some ideas on how I can help him cope.
Donut Posted April 7, 2005 Posted April 7, 2005 Just be there if and when he needs you. Don't wait in line for him, he has to have space to sort out what is going on in his head.
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