Jet96 Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 Ive been talking to this girl everyday for about three weeks we first met each other in 6th grade were both in 12th she says im the sweetest person ever i call her bae even though were not official i want to make it so she told me she likes me and i like her i asked her if we were on the same page and talked about kissing me would be like she said we were but the last guy she was with she dated for over a year and was really heartbroken when it ended.she was the first girl i really really liked and had a major crush on. I hablve been in this situation before. A month ago with a girl who was the 2nd one said she liked me but couldn't get over her ex and end up getting back together it was my first heartbreak . now i dont want this situation again is she just toying with me she says there is nobody else and i dont want to give up i wanna know if im wasting my time .so am i ?what does she mean when she says she needs time ?
Gary S Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 When she says she needs time, she is rejecting you. They can't say "no" to your face. It could be she is on the rebound from the last relationship. The bottom line is, she does not like you romantically and probably never will. If you feel the need to prove it, just go in for the kiss. Don't ask her, just do it. If she does not like you, she'll turn her head and give you her cheek. No problem! There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you only need one. Talk to other girls, there are tons of them out there. If you only set your sights on girls who like you and alot, you'll never have a problem.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 I had something similar last year.. I tried dating too soon after my BU & met a really great guy & I did really like him but I just couldn't get my ex out of my head so I ended it, I kinda regret it now as had I had been over my ex I really think it could have worked! Bad timing i guess! x
kendahke Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 Ive been talking to this girl everyday for about three weeks we first met each other in 6th grade were both in 12th she says im the sweetest person ever i call her bae even though were not official i want to make it so she told me she likes me and i like her i asked her if we were on the same page and talked about kissing me would be like she said we were but the last guy she was with she dated for over a year and was really heartbroken when it ended.she was the first girl i really really liked and had a major crush on. I hablve been in this situation before. A month ago with a girl who was the 2nd one said she liked me but couldn't get over her ex and end up getting back together it was my first heartbreak . now i dont want this situation again is she just toying with me she says there is nobody else and i dont want to give up i wanna know if im wasting my time .so am i ?what does she mean when she says she needs time ? It means she's not in a place to be who you need for her to be. She ain't the one. Friend-zone her and keep looking.
elaine567 Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 Don't get involved with people who have recently broken up, their heads are all over the place and most are nowhere near being able to date others. If you do end up in a relationship it will be a rebound one and you will end up getting hurt. Leave them be, till they get over their ex. Don't spend weeks texting and getting crushes on girls that you don't know even like you in that way. If she says she needs time and there is no obvious reason like a death in her family or some major life event going on in her life, then she is JNTIY.
d0nnivain Posted March 1, 2015 Posted March 1, 2015 All the people on here who are telling you "I need time" means that she is rejecting you are correct when dealing with adults. With a 12th grade teenaged girl, it means exactly what she says. She needs time. She needs you to prove to her that you are trust worthy because she's scared. Be a good guy. Be there for her. Romance her. Do nice things for her. Carry her books. Open doors. Study together. Sit next to her at basketball games & on the bus. Take her to the school dance. Ask her to prom. But don't push for the BF/GF label.
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