fluriana Posted February 28, 2015 Posted February 28, 2015 I saw the photo of a guy on Facebook in June last year & fell in love with him. After trying hard for about 6 months, I finally got him on WhatsApp a couple of months ago. The first few days, he talked to me normally. Then suddenly he stopped talking to me. I kept messaging him, but he only read my messages & kept quiet. Then oneday I told him everything about how I found him after trying so hard for such a long time. He understood that I had fallen in love with him, although I had never told him that I loved him. That day we talked again. But when I messaged him again after a few days, he again only read my messages & did not reply. Now he does not talk to me anymore. He seems to avoid me. My point is, if this guy wants to avoid me, why does he read my messages instead of deleting them straight without reading? Why doesn't he block me in the first place? And how does he recognize my number, since I don't think that he has saved it?
Gaeta Posted February 28, 2015 Posted February 28, 2015 So much wrong with this post I saw the photo of a guy on Facebook in June last year & fell in love with him. After trying hard for about 6 months, I finally got him on WhatsApp a couple of months ago.? You were unable to recognize that the man was not interested in getting to know you. When it takes 6 months for some guy to accept talking to you it's because 1. He is not interested 2. You were harassing. The first few days, he talked to me normally. Then suddenly he stopped talking to me. I kept messaging him, but he only read my messages & kept quiet. Once again you are unable to recognize he is not interested in you. If a man does not respond to ONE message you stop messaging. Then one day I told him everything about how I found him after trying so hard for such a long time. He understood that I had fallen in love with him, although I had never told him that I loved him. That day we talked again. But when I messaged him again after a few days, he again only read my messages & did not reply. Now he does not talk to me anymore. He seems to avoid me. How many times does a man need to ignore you for you to understand he is not interested ? My point is, if this guy wants to avoid me, why does he read my messages instead of deleting them straight without reading? Who cares? because he needs to click on them to delete them and it shows as read? Why doesn't he block me in the first place? And how does he recognize my number, since I don't think that he has saved it? Not all devices have the block options. Also, I never delete the phone numbers of creeps that have harassed me. When they text me I want to be able to ignore them. If I delete their number and they message me then I won't know it's them and I will ask 'who's this'. That would be talking to them, and I don't want that. ALSO: I read and keep the messages of creeps that have harassed me so if one day I need to I can report them to the authorities. Stop harassing this man. 2
katiegrl Posted February 28, 2015 Posted February 28, 2015 Well Gaeta said it all...there is nothing more to say except maybe cut and paste Gaeta's post to your fridge and read it every morning till it sinks in... 1
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