misty12 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 So this is interesting..my husbands iPad was lying around. I don't normally use his as I have my own, but mine wasn't charged. When I went to google something, it appeared that he had done a search on "too lazy to get a divorce". My first instinct was to laugh out loud! It also looked like he clicked on an article describing how 70% of divorces are filed my women because men are too lazy!! Well at least now I have my answer as to what is really holding him back
Author misty12 Posted February 27, 2015 Author Posted February 27, 2015 For me it's guilt and fear. So...laziness, guilt and fear..all great reasons to stay in a marriage.
OMC Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 Sounds like you want him to do it so he will be the bad guy instead of you. And the years of misery march on... 1
Mistygurl Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 Hi Misty, I don't know the back story but were you and your husband having problems before you saw his Ipad?
Elias33 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 70 percent of divorces are filed by women because they get the kids and the money. It's not laziness. 1
whichwayisup Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 You both have reasons to stay married. So, why not sit and talk with him. Be honest with each other, lay it all out on the line. You both have cheated and had affairs, so maybe think of an open marriage since it seems neither of you are truly happy together, but can't be bothered to divorce. If you do nothing then things are the way they are.
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