Otter2569 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 (edited) What the hell should I do? Ive been dating a wonderful woman for over 10 months. Its been awesome until the last few weeks when suddenly we are arguing more then ever (usually after drinking) and I am beginning to question things. We have an intense emotional connection: She says I am the love of her life, wants to get married...etc. I have never doubted her until recently. She is more moody than ever and of course I take it personally and pull back. She has a new job plus does side work, has a teenage daughter that is starting with the teenage attitude, has a house to worry about and may be going through some sort of womanly change (hot flashes etc). Her emotions seem to be all over the place and it is very confusing to me. Like most men, the emotional roller coaster is something I struggle with. This afternoon I am supposed to drive up for the weekend (I go to see her 80% of the time). So far today we have had minimal communication which is unusual. I am feeling very tense and am not looking forward to the weekend (like I always do). Of course if I stay home that will be a whole other issue. Edited February 27, 2015 by Otter2569 incomplete title
d0nnivain Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 I would suspect that part if it is the new job stress. When you go this weekend, try drinking less & listening more. Gently & while sober, ask her what has been bothering her. Get her to talk. 1
Author Otter2569 Posted February 27, 2015 Author Posted February 27, 2015 I know she is anxious about her daughter too...and the side job...and she is cutting down / stopping drinking for a bit. We are social drinkers but have gotten a little carried away lately.
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