ujaime904 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 I apologize for writing so much.... I'm currently in relationship, will be 2 years march 3rd... im 19 and hes 21... during the past months there have been many ups and downs, arguments almost everyday and so on.... my partner has cheated on me during the time of us being together... we first met and things started off great. Then we decided to move in together ,and that's when things went downhill... i found out he was still messing around with other people... till this day i dont trust him and that's the reason for most of our arguments... people email me and text me saying hes screwing around still ... he denies it but i dont know who to believe because of his past.... at the moment were not living together anymore because of the last fight we got into... and he wants me back home...but i dont know what to do ...i know if i go back all the fighting will still continue ... never a day where we dont argue.... I'm actually feeling different towards him... i dont feel the same when were together.... i dont really look forward to spending time with him because i know that all were gonna do is just fight.... lately ive been planning my life without him... im looking for new jobs in other cities, places to move etc.... and i dont really see him in my future.... i do love him still.... but i feel lost and stuck.. nothing good has come out of my life since ive been with him.... just alot of tears, and heartbreaks.... I need some advice on what to do.. Do i just leave him for good and move on and start living my life or should we continue to try to make things work between us.. . has anyone else been in somewhat of a similar situation,
StalwartMind Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 I can't find anything positive about the relationship in what you did write, so more than likely that is good indicator of your feelings towards him and your situation. There's literally no reason to spend your precious time on someone who makes you feel miserable, especially when you could be using it on someone else who will treat you better. The good thing for you is that you are young so all life ahead of you, you're only just entering adulthood and while there are plenty more learning experiences ahead, you should focus on getting yourself into a better place. Your love for him may be because of the past good and joyous moments you've shared but those are all but overshadowed now. As long as he is a part of your life there will be reminders of the good too. Make your life worthwhile and don't settle or accept anyone treating you poorly.
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