Is the HOTNESS of the person the basis of our desire to know them?

[RecordProducer]

If we knew everyone right away the way we get to know them after a few years of a relationship, we would never get hooked with anyone. At the beginning we show only the best side of us.

[moimeme]

It was a nightmare to go to restaurants because of how particular he was about the food.

 

Men who are picky about food drive me nuts. It especially bugs me when they eat only a few things and flat-out refuse to ever try anything else. I love trying new things and I love ethnic foods and I like to share those interests with my partner.

 

a guy who thinks he is Einstein reincarnated

 

Actually, I love a smart man. Guys got to have brains for me to be interested. I don't care if he thinks he is Einstein reincarnated if he is very bright AND open-minded and that can be hard to find. It's the bright guy who also is always eager to learn new things that really turns my crank. Sadly, a lot of intelligent men start thinking they don't need to learn anything new and aren't interested in doing so and I agree that that's a turn-off.