VedderisBetter Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 I am talking to two girls that I met from different dating sites. They both mentioned being available this coming Monday. I'm not sure which I would prefer so I was think I could meet one for lunch and the other for dinner. Is this advisable or is it best to separate the dates to different days? I believe this is the first time I've run into this problem lol.
SycamoreCircle Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 There's nothing special about it except that it sounds special. Does it ever give you pause to say I ran to the grocery store and after to the pharmacist? It's as significant as that. I'm, of course, taking into account that these are first OLDs. 1
Arieswoman Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Personally I can't see a problem with this. When I was OLD I often scheduled 2 dates on a Sat. One for brunch and the other for drinks pm. I would keep your options open at this stage as you never know who's going to flake on you etc. Good luck !
Gaeta Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Yes I have done it and I try to not repeat that. After I met someone for the first time I like to let the dust fall and see how I feel about the whole experience. If I set 2 dates in 1 day by the time I make it to the second date I didn't have time to process the first one. Give it a try and see how that felt for you.
d0nnivain Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 I never had 2 dates in 1 night but I have done what you are contemplating: 1 lunch date & a different date for dinner. 1
Jessie1231 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Yes, I've done the lunch date and dinner date like you're thinking of doing. It is very easy to do and with first dates, there is nothing wrong with it at all. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Nothing wrong with doing this - just be very discreet with your first date and don't allude you're going to see someone right after them. Make sure you separate them in time long enough where if your first date runs longer than you anticipate you aren't rushing her out.
katiegrl Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Since you met on line, then these initial "meet ups" are just that....meet ups. Not dates...so I wouldn't be concerned about it.
Vintage79 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 When I was doing serious online dating, there was one day when I met 4 girls...logistically challenging, but I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a first meeting - I don't see how seeing 2 new people on the same day is really all that much different than seeing one on a Monday and the other on Tuesday.
fitnessfan365 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 I've done it more than a few times in the past. You meet with one earlier in the day and with the other at night. But it always felt like I was asking for bad karma..LOL Also, when there were times I had a great date earlier in the day, she was still on my mind and it was hard to fully focus on the girl at night. So now I keep it to one date in a given day. 1
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