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How to ask ex for no strings sex?


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Hi, I saw someone for a few weeks, it ended about a month ago. We never had time to see each other. We both saw 'non-relationship material' things in each other, but got along like a house on fire and the sex was great.

 

I am wondering if we could get into a no strings situation - but not sure how to approach it. I thought maybe:

 

Hey, are you in the country? I want to have sex. Not date, no expectations, just good sex with someone that makes me laugh. You want to?

 

He ended things with me and we've had no contact since then, this is genuine by me and I don't want to get back together but he might construe it that way.

 

Any good ideas?

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If he's interested then I think he would say "yes please" to that message.

If he's not interested then you've lost nothing.

So yeah, win-win. Go for it.

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