asdf24 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 She always claimed I never really cared about her. She was always the victim. Told me she was crazy about me would do anything for me ect.. all those things. We snuck around for a year because of her parents. We tried to talk to the parents and it failed miserabley. So we had plans to move out for a while. She bailed out last minute. Her mom was going to drop her ck pletlwy and cut contact With her. She bailed out last minute. When she broke up with me she sounded so calm and collected. I said this sounds so non chalant for you like this is nothing. She called me the next day hysterically crying wasn't even making sense. Saying I thought this would of been easier the second time. I just want you.. we can work this oout right? Told her she made a decision stick with it and she should see other people to make herself happy. Not sure if she called me out of emotion or just to make me feel better and save my ego
Ruby65 Posted February 26, 2015 Posted February 26, 2015 Why did her parents object to your relationship?
Author asdf24 Posted February 27, 2015 Author Posted February 27, 2015 Because we snuck around a couple times. As far as fixing things with the parents its out of the question.. we've tried.
Seeker12 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 Dont know how to advise you specifically mate, but my exes parents had issues with me which eventually led to our break up, i honestly think you made the best decision, iv got mates who are still in relationships which are dead ends because parents hate the girl etc etc and are just causing heartache and problems. In terms of her calling the day after, its most likely emotions, hey i did the same thing with my ex, mumbled a whole load of crap that im embarrassed of, that was solely because i was in so much emotional pain i couldnt bear it.
Author asdf24 Posted February 27, 2015 Author Posted February 27, 2015 Are you a guy or girl? Just out of curiosity.
Seeker12 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 Are you a guy or girl? Just out of curiosity. I am a guy, never felt so much emotional pain in my life, my heart felt like it was ripping! Promised myself id never let that happen again.
Author asdf24 Posted February 27, 2015 Author Posted February 27, 2015 I got mixed emotions I got really pissed off we got in a fight things got messy. Ended up apologizing the next day though. Wheb she asked if u wanted some of my stuff back I said I really miss you are we done? She still never gave me a straight answer. Feel kind of emasculated for the way I handled that.
Seeker12 Posted February 27, 2015 Posted February 27, 2015 I got mixed emotions I got really pissed off we got in a fight things got messy. Ended up apologizing the next day though. Wheb she asked if u wanted some of my stuff back I said I really miss you are we done? She still never gave me a straight answer. Feel kind of emasculated for the way I handled that. Dont worry man, you aint the first to do it/go through it, its the emotions, when they subside, you will just laugh at how silly you were, i sure do it! With a rational head, you will ask yourself, do you want someone who doesnt want you, the fact she didnt give you a straight answer is enough for you to know your position. For me, it took a while before i started thinking straight with my head, a few weeks to be honest.
Author asdf24 Posted February 28, 2015 Author Posted February 28, 2015 Idk if I should break no contact been about a month.
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