ntt Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I've been hanging out with a girl recently that I met - see http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/507441-crushing-girl-but-not-courageous-enough-ask-her-out for a bit of a backstory. I followed the advice in the thread to ask her out for coffee, but around the same time I was looking on FB and got the impression that she seeing someone - there way a guy posting on her wall, and when I clicked on his profile it said they had been in a relationship since July 2014, and I saw they had check-ins together as recently as December. So when we met up I didn't really consider it to be a date as such. Since we went out for coffee we've been out together another time, but we've just been hanging out as friends. However, I can't help but feel some affection towards her - although due to my shyness, and the feeling that she may be seeing someone I haven't made it obvious. The strange thing is that she hasn't mentioned that she has a bf, and if I look at her FB friends he isn't listed as one of them (I think he previously was). How can I ask her if she has a bf, without it sounding like I am coming onto her, or appearing creepy? I don't want to make things unnecessarily awkward and would like to be friends with her even is she is seeing another guy.
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Have another coffee date & say something cheesy like "Does your BF mind that you have coffee with me so much?" BTW, fwiw, I don't think you are hanging out as friends. These are dates. Based upon the fact that you have had multiple encounters, she's not a very good person if she's doing all this behind a BF's back.
Recommended Posts