jetapau Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I have a crush on this girl in my class. when she talks to other guys she maintains eye contact but she doenst make eye contact with me. she looks in the group when I talked to her once about a homework. I added her on Facebook. I said hi and she vanished from chat. i asked her out for a dinner and a movie she replied after two hours. her reply was " yes sure i dont mind just let me know, then she sent this " sorry that messeage was not supposed to be for you and she said no sorry. i said why you are playing hard to get. she said i was honest and i a not playing hard to get and she said my answer is a no. I totally ignored her for two weeks and then when she saw me in the hall way. although she had lots of space she passed by really close and bumped into me ( she touched me 100 sure ) i sent her a meme that women are hard to understand. nothing offensive it is a funny meme. she unfriended ( no block) we had a vacation I ignored her for two months and a half during that time. last week si was at the gate and my crush and her friends were far away. they moved closer to me. my crush turned her back and her friend was staring at me ( it was very obvious no one was there) I ignored her as if nothing happened. after 1 week in the class. although there lots of space she pretends she is looking in her phone and she passes by me really slow and bruhed against me ( she touched me 100 sure ) . I made a move and I sent her a friend request. she didn't reject or accept my friend request. it is till there. but after the friend request she now stares at me a lot more. we catch each other staring. she would turn around and look at me and when i look she looks away. her friend was staring at me too. I took that as sign to make a move. i was in the hall way and she was a bit far away she was looking at me and when I caught her she looked down in her phone and she was moving really slow. I got really nervous and I didn't go to talk to her. I sent her a message that i got it and I will talk to you tomorrow see ya. she saw the message and she didn't come the next day i am not delusional all of this happened
PegNosePete Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 She has rejected you 3 times. I think you need to face the reality that she is not into you. You are looking for signs that she is, but she simply isn't. 1
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 To be honest man, you seem like you don't have any balls. Instead of getting this girl's number in person at school and calling her on the phone to ask her out, you attempt to become a Facebook friend and ask her out via Facebook chat? I'm sorry but that is just weak. Girls like confidence. Not sneak attacks.
Author jetapau Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 i feel that she is interested but i am afraid that she is gonna reject me when i talk to her face to face
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 i feel that she is interested but i am afraid that she is gonna reject me when i talk to her face to face Think of it from her POV too. Why would she agree to go out on a date with a guy she's never even talked to before? Reverse the situation. Imagine a complete stranger asks you to meet up on Facebook out of the blue. Wouldn't it weird you out?
Author jetapau Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 Think of it from her POV too. Why would she agree to go out on a date with a guy she's never even talked to before? Reverse the situation. Imagine a complete stranger asks you to meet up on Facebook out of the blue. Wouldn't it weird you out? i know but do you think she is interested in me. when I talk to her in person can i ask her out would that be ok
PegNosePete Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 i am afraid that she is gonna reject me when i talk to her face to face There is only one way to find out my friend.
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Please tell me you are still in high school. If so your theory that she likes you because she ignores you may be valid. If you are over 18, this woman wants absolutely nothing to do with you. Stay away from her If you are young, perhaps get to know her as a person before you press for a date. Talk to her about school, movies, whatever is so fascinating on her phone. She may be terrified to be alone with a boy she doesn't know well. Then again, since she was willing to go to a movie with another boy, at this point you also have to figure out if she has a BF. If there really wasn't another boy, her yes then no is an indication that she's playing games & doesn't have the highest character. Are you sure you want a girl like that?
Author jetapau Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 what should I talk to her like can I ask her out ?? or would it be strange ??
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 what should I talk to her like can I ask her out ?? or would it be strange ?? Talk to her about school or work. Talk about the weather. Ask some 'get to know you" questions: favorite foods, books, songs, movies etc.; childhood memories, life goals / dreams etc.
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