AVarma Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 So as I'm sure everybody knows I haven't kissed a woman yet. So I'm assuming the first time I won't be the most skilled kisser. Is this a dealbreaker? I could of course tell her I've never done this before though I imagine this would be extremely awkward and be a turnoff rather than make her sympathetic. So how do I prepare for kissing?
londonlady82 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I can suggest not using too much tongue- guys I've missed who are inexperienced always do that and its not sexy. You're not trying to swallow her whole. When you kiss someone for the first time, you don't know what their "method" is so follow her lead I guess. 3
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Hey AVarma! My suggestion to you would be, to FEEL the moment...to FEEL how sensual you're feeling as you begin to kiss her. When you start kissing her, press your lips GENTLY and SENSUOUSLY against hers...make sure the kissing is SOFT...SLOW....and turn your head from left to right as you're kissing her. When you're feeling those sensual and sexual feelings while you're kissing her, LIGHTLY use your tongue and SLOWLY and GENTLY dart it in and out of her mouth in conjunction with sensuously kissing her lips gently and slowly. Every few seconds, STOP kissing her and LOOK into her eyes and SMILE seductively! She'll LOVE that.:) Don't make the kiss too long unless you can tell that SHE'S the one prolonging it! Other than what I've told you, because I'm trying to guide you and give you some starter pointers to begin learning how to kiss - this is just something that you're going to have to PRACTICE in order to get your kissing style down pat. The important thing is that you kiss her with FEELING and EMOTION and SENSUALITY. Kissing is something that you FEEL, not that you do. Good luck, OP. Let us know how things go! . 2
Phoe Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Not a dealbreaker. Best thing to do in that moment is relax. And don't overdo it, especially with the tongue. Keep it simple!
Zahara Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Not a deal breaker because It is an easy fix. Just no tongue too soon and slobbering all over her face. Feel the moment, relax and if she's good, follow her lead. I remember a first kiss with a guy who was awful. I told him to just do what I was doing -- he was a great student! 1
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I remember hearing once that a woman associates kissing skills with how you are in bed. Makes sense because if you can't kiss properly, how are you going to satisfy her as a whole? I actually had a first date recently where I had a great time. But at the end of the night when I kissed her, it was TERRIBLE. Completely tuned me off. The second my lips touched hers, she rammed her tongue down my throat. Now I love to make out as much as the next guy. But the first kiss should be slow and build up a little bit. This girl felt like she was searching for my tonsils.
kart180 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I'm not that good at kissing as my parents were not passionate and I didn't have much girls
Author AVarma Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 Hey AVarma! My suggestion to you would be, to FEEL the moment...to FEEL how sensual you're feeling as you begin to kiss her. When you start kissing her, press your lips GENTLY and SENSUOUSLY against hers...make sure the kissing is SOFT...SLOW....and turn your head from left to right as you're kissing her. When you're feeling those sensual and sexual feelings while you're kissing her, LIGHTLY use your tongue and SLOWLY and GENTLY dart it in and out of her mouth in conjunction with sensuously kissing her lips gently and slowly. Every few seconds, STOP kissing her and LOOK into her eyes and SMILE seductively! She'll LOVE that.:) Don't make the kiss too long unless you can tell that SHE'S the one prolonging it! Other than what I've told you, because I'm trying to guide you and give you some starter pointers to begin learning how to kiss - this is just something that you're going to have to PRACTICE in order to get your kissing style down pat. The important thing is that you kiss her with FEELING and EMOTION and SENSUALITY. Kissing is something that you FEEL, not that you do. Good luck, OP. Let us know how things go! . Well for now it's hypothetical. I actually have a date on friday night but it's a first date so I probably won't be kissing her. Plus it's a blind date as well. But if it goes well and I take her out again I'm hoping to kiss her! I'm not that good at kissing as my parents were not passionate and I didn't have much girls My parents come from the same region as yours but they're Muslim not Hindu. I don't really practice the religion though. Do you?
Echo74 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Nope. I married a bad kisser which was a disappointment but other than that everything else was good.
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Nope. I married a bad kisser which was a disappointment but other than that everything else was good. You were supposed to teach him how to be better woman.
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 First kisses are never the toe curlers portrayed in movies & books. Two people can get better at it & become more in sync with each other. If I see improvement it's not a deal breaker. The secret is start softly. Do not announce that you have never done this before. Follow her lead. Do not try to lick the inside of her mouth or inhale her face. Beyond that, shut down your brain & follow your instincts.
Buddhist Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Yes. It's a deal breaker for me. Bad sex, I can work with, he will improve. But bad kisser? For some reason I wouldn't bother. No let's be honest here, if his kissing is bad things are unlikely to escalate any further.
mightycpa Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 The best kisser I ever met kissed just like me. Some styles mesh, others don't.
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