Xiang Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Been seeing this gal for a while, she is from out of town, but not incredibly far away. Atm it seems like we are some sort of FWB. But we did not establish this or anything. We talk, we please each-other, we even argued once like a couple and had makeup sex. But none of this is established like i said. Since the fight however i have been more invested in this, i realized i care more. And she has been Less. I asked the girl what i mean to her, she always jokes arround so she also joked about this, avoiding the question. Told her to be serious, because i need to know where this is going, that i'm falling for her. Wanted to know how she feels about me. Because if it isn't mutual i will move on. She said "we will see how this goes". Vague answer. Is that like a yes? Let's see...no? How to interpret her answer? Stuck and in need of help. Stay or go...
Mrin Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 She views this as a FWB. Nothing more. Her vagueness is just a way for her to avoid saying something direct to you about how she basically doesn't feel anything more than a FWB 1
Author Xiang Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 Wow seriously...if that's all it means... I'm just really good at not finding someone who likes me, thought i had something . Anyone else?
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 It could be that she doesn't truly know yet if she wants a relationship. Has she recently gotten out of a relationship? Perhaps give her time (and space) to make her decision.
smackie9 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 If she wants to "see how things go" stop having sex with her and go out on dates. When you take sex out of the equation you get the truth about how they feel about you.
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