nick92 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Hi, So, I'll try to keep this as short as possible, even though it's hard. My girlfriend broke up with me almost three weeks ago. The reasons she mentioned was that we just didn't work, I needed to "find myself" and that I have a tendency to take her for granted. We had discussed this before and I'm fully aware of it and wanted to change. Still do. We had a lot of good times during our relationship and we were together every day. Talked about moving in together Anyway, here she broke up with me and said she hoped we could still be friends. She even said "I hope the future can bring a second chance for us". In the beginning I agreed and we talked and kind of helped each other through it. I found it hard to remain talking to her though, so I said that I might need some space. So I only responded sporadically. She even asked me how I'm doing and that it looked like I was doing better. I said that I really wasn't THAT good right now. She kept messaging telling me how bad she felt and that this is horrible. Of course I was stupid and answered, and kind of regressed back to being and idiot, begging for her to take me back. Suddenly on friday she stopped texting me, for no apparent reason. We had decided that IF we were gonna talk it was gonna be platonic, but now there was nothing at all. I thought nothing of it and went on with my day, going out with friends and stuff. Then on sunday she posted a facebook status about how she was planning on moving to another town (1,5 hours from here) and I felt like I went back to day one. Tried to contact her subtly, not even mentioning the moving cause I don't want to stop her from doing what she needs to, but she kind of just blew me off, saying that she didn't trust that I had started moving on and that she wouldn't meet me until I did. I'm now on day 2 of no contact, to just work on myself, but finding it REALLY hard as I can't really know what she's thinking and she looks so happy on facebook and everything. Is she just trying to get as far away from me as possible? Why would she do that when she said she hoped we could be together in the future? I must add that I REALLY love this girl, and I just feel empty all the time right now.. All I want is to have her back. We were pretty much perfect together, except I had some insecurities that eventually affected the relationship. Any advice would be awesome, thanks. Sorry I couldn't get it any shorter.
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