Amelie1980 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Hi I have a FWB. I got tired of the situation and doing all the chasing back in December and gave up. I stopped contacting him. He then began stepping up to the plate. He contacted me first all the tine. Suggested meeting and if he couldn't or had to cancel he would rwll me and explain and apologise. He talked to me as a friend also it wasn't just sex. Since we saw each other last.....he has been in touch nearly every day. He has mentioned enjoying the year together three times. if I leave him alone he always comes back. I have heard from him 3 times since Wednesday. On Friday he asked me out for this week saying he'd like to see me. Contact levels havent dropped but I feel weird now. I looked at Facebook and saw he and a short term ex are friends again on Facebook. Not sure what to make of it. I feel bad about contact now....dont feel inwant to but nothing has really changed. ....or has it?
Omei Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Its fwb he will say what he needs to in order to keep having sex. There is no chasing here there is no relationship in the making Fwb = people who have sex with no strings or commitment to each other. Expect nothing from him but sex.
Zahara Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 I got tired of the situation and doing all the chasing back in December and gave up. I stopped contacting him. Why are you chasing someone you have sex with? Do you want more? He talked to me as a friend also it wasn't just sex. Yes, friends with benefits. if I leave him alone he always comes back. I have heard from him 3 times since Wednesday. On Friday he asked me out for this week saying he'd like to see me. Yes, because he wants sex. It's easy, available and there are no strings attached. Of course he will want to see you. There was a poster here that was an FWB for 6 years I believe. All this time having feelings for the guy. Never mentioned anything to him. Her past thread she was in horrible pain. If you have expectations and you want more, best to speak up -- either way you will get you answer. Speculating and wondering will get you nowhere.
Buddhist Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Don't make anything of it. He contacts you so that he doesn't lose his FWB arrangement not because he wants a relationship. He will continue to have sex with you if you allow it, and it will continue to mean absolutely nothing. I wish I could hire a massive billboard that says.... A guy contacting you does not mean he wants a relationship. 1
Mrin Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 News at 11 -- guys want sex! Brilliant! Who knew?!?!
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