spaceraider234 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Basically theres this guy i met on a night out, he is a friend of my good friends boyfriends, didnt really talk to him but i found out after that he thought i was good looking so i added him on facebook, we were messaging back and forth, swapped numbers, txting back and forth every day until we all arranged to go out on a double date as it were. So we went out had a laugh + kissed, he dropped me home in a taxi, text asking if i got in ok etc then the next day txting all day, he asked if i wanted to do something in the week, so we did. We went for a few drinks and hit it off really well, lots in common, again dropped me home in taxi walked me to my door and kissed me good night. Following daily texting we went for a meal the following weekend, then went back to his, slept together and dropped me home in the morning, weve slept together a few times since, the last time saturday just gone and in the morning he made me breakfast but seemed in a hurry to take me home "when do you want me to take you back" "im gonna take you back soon" he seems interested talks to me every day, his friend said he likes me but hes playing it cool, this may be true as he seems very cool calm and collected, isnt the affectionate cuddling type as such, he is 24 and has been single for 3 years, When he texts he seems geuinely interested in what im up to etc tends to make alot of conversation. Dont know if im being paranoid but can't tell if he really likes me or not, is there any tell tale signs to look for without directly asking him?
central Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 If he goes on dates with you and sticks around a while without sex, he probably likes you. Of course, these days few guys stick around forever if there isn't sex in a reasonable time frame. Most men don't want to be stuck in the friend zone when there are many other women to date. So, only time will tell, and whether he continues to want to date you after you do have sex. There are no guarantees, so at some point you just decide if he's worth the risk. 1
Gaeta Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 I am not sure why you suspect he just wants sex. He seems interested and attentive. Are you just hung up on the fact he wanted to take you home early? That doesn't mean anything, he had things to take care of. What you are feeling is typical of women having sex early but not understanding that if you have sex it's because you want to, it's not a favor, it's not a way to win a man over, it's not a commitment. If he loses interest after sex it does not mean he used you. Sex is a fair trade between 2 people. He gets sex, you get sex. 3
d0nnivain Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 It's way too early for declarations of love & conversations about forever. Things are going well. His actions scream interest. Why do you doubt that? What is it that makes you think he's going to hit & run if he hasn't already? 2
Mrin Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 OP's story in food: I am sitting at this new tapas joint. Mmmmmm it smells so good. They specialize in shellfish small bites. Lobster here, calamari there. Mussels. And really crisp white wine. The lighting is just right. And it is warm inside. Everyone is so nice. The staff is delightful and the prices are reasonable. There is just such a good vibe. I've been there for a couple of hours just reading my book, munching on lobster rolls and sipping this amazing wine. I noticed that the waiter has stopped by a few times and asked if I needed anything. He just looked over again and smiled. Do you think they've laced my food with sedatives and will take my unconscious body back into the kitchen and harvest one of my kidneys? That would really suck. Perhaps I should just run out of here and never come back. 1
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