Ace23 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 My ex and I started talking again and she said lets just go with the flow. What's that mean coming from an ex or just a woman in general?
Toodaloo Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 It means she is not expecting anything and neither should you.
Author Ace23 Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 Ok but does it mean she's interested just don't put any expectations on it like lets just see what happens? If it does it does if it doesn't then it doesn't ?
oldshirt Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Seeing how it is an "ex", it means the dude(s) she dumped you for didn't work out and she will let you entertain her and keep her company untill a bigger and better deal comes along. It means she will let you be a place-holder untill she can monkey-swing to the next one. She is keeping her options open and has no intentions of you being "the one." You need to do the same if you even go there at all. Just view it as a Sat night date or FB/FWB to keep the tank drained untill someone else comes along. Don't invest more than you are willing to lose and be prepared to be left high and dry at any moment. And you also keep your hand on the ejection handle and don't hesitate to bail out if you get another valid offer from someone else. She is basically saying you can be her dancing monkey to keep her entertained untill the next one comes on to the scene.
organizedchaos Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Seeing how it is an "ex", it means the dude(s) she dumped you for didn't work out and she will let you entertain her and keep her company untill a bigger and better deal comes along. It means she will let you be a place-holder untill she can monkey-swing to the next one. She is keeping her options open and has no intentions of you being "the one." You need to do the same if you even go there at all. Just view it as a Sat night date or FB/FWB to keep the tank drained untill someone else comes along. Don't invest more than you are willing to lose and be prepared to be left high and dry at any moment. And you also keep your hand on the ejection handle and don't hesitate to bail out if you get another valid offer from someone else. She is basically saying you can be her dancing monkey to keep her entertained untill the next one comes on to the scene. ^ Exactly
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