lastresort Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 So I've been seeing this girl for a 5/6 months. Things are going good. We've never made it official bf/gf thing. But we were having an argument, nothing big, she decides to remind me "I'm not your girlfriend". No biggie. Fast forward to about 2 week ago. I had a surgery And she had my phone and decided to look/read my text messages. I donot delete anything, nothing to hide. She reads some text from a girl friend of mine that I play softball with. I gave her a massage after the game, in the parking lot, not in a car, standing around having beers with the team. Yes she is good looking younger than me by 8 years. The girl I'm seeing flips out and ask if I had sex with her. I said no. We have been friends for maybe 3 years and are just friends. Why read through my text messages then get pissed at me for stupid things like this. She was the one who broke the trust by reading my messages while I was having surgery. What's your thoughts on this.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 How old are you two? She sounds a bit immature.
Buddhist Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Just tell her, she's not your girlfriend. 1
Author lastresort Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 I'm 40 she's 32. Both have kids from previous marriages. So our alone time is limited. I coach two baseball teams so I'm at field 5/6 days a week and this crap gets old. I used to think I was insecure. But not sure now. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Wow I thought she might have been like 20 or something. Yeah she's really immature for being 32. I'd remind her of your arrangement - aka you're not her boyfriend. 1
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