Corduroy Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Around six months ago this cute girl added me on IG. She would like all my photos until she got a boyfriend, so you know, thought it would be impossible to make a move with her. So out of nowhere she started liking my pics, and today I left on a comment on one of her pics. She didn't respond but, left a comment on one of mine & said "this is perfect!" I'm thinking to myself "hmm, this is rare, she must be fighting with her BF. lol" I know this doesn't mean much, but this girl is perfect. I feel like sending her a DM saying "I know you got a boyfriend and all, but I have the biggest crush on you. Our secret." Good move, or nah?
Buddhist Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 I don't think so. You have to think about what could happen if you do. Now lets say all your dreams come true, you confess, she confesses and then dumps her boyfriend to be with you. Are you now going to feel secure that she is going to stay with you? Or are your going to get a little voice in your head that says.....if she did that to him....? Don't ever break up a relationship in progress, it usually ends in tears. If she is so perfect, then you can wait for her relationship to meet it's natural end, and then when she is looking again, be the guy who asks her out. In the meantime, find someone else to shag.
irresolute Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 She'll run, for sure. A big crush on you??? You really want to through yourself like this? What a bad idea omg. Just say hi, no need to mention the boyfriend or anything.
Suave Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 If she dumps her boyfriend to be with you, she'll dump you to be with someone else. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 This is like saying someone must be into me because they liked my facebook status. Lol
Author Corduroy Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 Well, I could tell she's interested because the only photos she likes of mine are my selfies, lol. My friend said the same thing..."If she cheats on her boyfriend, she'll cheat on you!" This is not the first time I've been in a situation like this. All I could & should do is wait. I can't help it, she's soooo F'ing hot. I'd so you guys a picture if I could. I just want to get it out there, so at least she knows.
Buddhist Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 I can't help it, she's soooo F'ing hot. I'd so you guys a picture if I could. I just want to get it out there, so at least she knows. Choke the goose in private, not in public.
Author Corduroy Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 Choke the goose in private, not in public. Hahaha! But seriously, she's wifey material. I want to be 'Mr. Steal Your Girl'
Purepony Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Let me see if I get this straight Casanova you think she likes you or she's having problems with her boyfriend because he hit like on your pictures and left a comment!?
Author Corduroy Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 (edited) Let me see if I get this straight Casanova you think she likes you or she's having problems with her boyfriend because he hit like on your pictures and left a comment!? She used to like all my pics, until she got into a relationship. Now she's liking them again, I'm assuming things aren't going well them. I usually know when a girl likes me, & is not interested, long story, but I know! Edited February 24, 2015 by Corduroy
bolase Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Hmm I don't think she necessarily likes you, she could just be bored today. Or anything really. But as a girl I do think you should do it. I take it you don't know anything about her and her boyfriend's relationship first-hand? Pictures don't tell a full story. So this is a reasonably good way of doing your research, you never know if you don't try. They could be breaking up. If they're happy, her response or lack of will tell you what you need to know and you back off. This "if she dumps her boyfriend for you, she'll dump you for someone" is not true and not comparable to being a cheat. I don't think that jumping from one relationship to another is necessarily disrespectful (unless you are throwing a new relationship in your ex's face). It just isn't like that. We're all human and there has to be existing problems you're battling or the relationship is coming to an end anyway, which is a process of an emotional bond unfolding and others in your life might start to grow.
Author Corduroy Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 (edited) Hmm I don't think she necessarily likes you, she could just be bored today. Or anything really. But as a girl I do think you should do it. I take it you don't know anything about her and her boyfriend's relationship first-hand? Pictures don't tell a full story. So this is a reasonably good way of doing your research, you never know if you don't try. They could be breaking up. If they're happy, her response or lack of will tell you what you need to know and you back off. This "if she dumps her boyfriend for you, she'll dump you for someone" is not true and not comparable to being a cheat. I don't think that jumping from one relationship to another is necessarily disrespectful (unless you are throwing a new relationship in your ex's face). It just isn't like that. We're all human and there has to be existing problems you're battling or the relationship is coming to an end anyway, which is a process of an emotional bond unfolding and others in your life might start to grow. I don't have hard evidence about whats going on with her and her bf, but today she posted the song "Cough Syrup By Young The Giant." Sounds dramatic to me. So you're saying I should do it? Should I go for it now, or wait & see what happens with them? Edited February 25, 2015 by Corduroy
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Around six months ago this cute girl added me on IG. She would like all my photos until she got a boyfriend, so you know, thought it would be impossible to make a move with her. So out of nowhere she started liking my pics, and today I left on a comment on one of her pics. She didn't respond but, left a comment on one of mine & said "this is perfect!" I'm thinking to myself "hmm, this is rare, she must be fighting with her BF. lol" I know this doesn't mean much, but this girl is perfect. I feel like sending her a DM saying "I know you got a boyfriend and all, but I have the biggest crush on you. Our secret." Good move, or nah? Wait.. This is a girl you've never even spoken to, let alone spent time with right? You just like the way she looks in her pics? Dude, hot girls are a dime a dozen. Why give one so much value when you don't even know what her personality is like? Not to mention the fact that she is taken. Why not spend your time approaching women in real life that you can actually talk to? 1
crackerjax9 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 She's wifey material? Based on what? Her pics? You know nothing about her,You seem shallow and naive and (unless you're a teenager) have a lot of growing up to do. 1
crackerjax9 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Wait.. This is a girl you've never even spoken to, let alone spent time with right? You just like the way she looks in her pics? Dude, hot girls are a dime a dozen. Why give one so much value when you don't even know what her personality is like? Not to mention the fact that she is taken. Why not spend your time approaching women in real life that you can actually talk to? Clapping all around. 2
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Clapping all around. Sexy, feminine, and a good head on your shoulders. If you tell me that your hair is extra long, and you have curves in all the right places, I may just be a bit envious of your nice guy boyfriend.
crackerjax9 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Haha I do have long hair but not too many curves...sorryyyyy haha glad I'm sexy without knowing what I look like
fitnessfan365 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Haha I do have long hair but not too many curves...sorryyyyy haha glad I'm sexy without knowing what I look like Haha.. Sweetheart I'm a personal trainer and around hot women all day long. I'm not goona say that I don't have physical tastes. I definitely do. But what's sexy about a woman to me is her femininity and sexual persona. It's funny because hot women have a tendency to be really bad in bed because they think just showing up and looking pretty gets the job done. I'll take a decent 7 or 8 any day that understands how to be feminine, likes dominance in her guy, cares about fitness, and has a good head on her shoulders over a high maintenance 9 or 10.
Author Corduroy Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 (edited) I don't care what anyone says but what does it for me is good looks. I have to be physically attracted to them first. I admit, I'm shallow. There's literarily dozens of girls who try to get with me, but I don't give in. I just can't settle for a plain jane. The girls I want to get with & talk to.. 75% of the time give me the cold shoulder. They're too stuck up. But not this girl, she's seems interested in me. I have this instinct. Yeah I've never met her, but I get more play online than real life, Its the digital age! She has a boyfriend yes, but if I let it known that I'm digging her, who knows what god has in store for us! Edited February 25, 2015 by Corduroy
Purepony Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Hopefully you'll figure it out before it's too late
Author Corduroy Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 Hopefully you'll figure it out before it's too late figure what out? too late?
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