stan98 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Hello, So im not sure if this is the right place to post this or not so if not im sorry. I need some advice on knowing if this girl is into me or not. Im 23 years old. I had a girlfriend of multiple years till she left me out of the blue and the end of last summer. I was absolutely heartbroken and never thought id get over it. I was so depressed for weeks and just absolutely destroyed over this. This is the biggest reason i am writing this because i truly am ready to find another person to spend my time with and i really want to. I also deal with pretty bad anxiety so im sure thats part of why im so worried about this lol.... So it all started a few weeks ago. I was at a bar with a few friends and she was a friend of one of my friends and she was there. I instantly saw her and was attracted to her. I thought she was WAY out of my league, but i had a few drinks and i went over and started talking to her. We talked for awhile and i thought that was the end of it and went home. The next weekend im out again at the same bar with pretty much the same group of people and the freind of mine who knows her instantly comes up to me as soon as i walk into the bar and without even saying hi says that the girl i was really into thinks im really cute. I was so excited and started to talking to her and we danced and i bought her some drinks and i all around had the best night ive had in a long time. I didnt get her number or anything i guess because i was really drunk idk. I was out of town the next few weekends so i didnt see her but last weekend i was in town. I saw her at the bar again and we were really feeling eachother and i guess i gave her my number but i didnt even know till the next morning she texted me. Since then we always favorite eachothers stuff on social media and i just truly am into her. I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years so i almost feel like i forget how to do all this. I used to get lots of girls (not trying to be cocky) but now its like i forget how i used to do it. I know a lot of people in this day in age arent very religious so dont get all mad cause i am, and i prayed a few times about it to give me a sign and each time something has happened to tell me to pursue it. Im really just ready to move on form the past girl because it cause me a lot of pain and find someone new. Thats why this is bothering me so much. I want to text her or something but i dont want to be pushy. Am i overhtinking everything? Someone just give me some advice because i feel like a complete loser right now lol Thank you
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 You're way overthinking everything. You let things with this girl drag on for way too long without asking for her number. You need to take action and initiate - if you just drag your feet, women won't be very interested. Text this girl and ask her out. Having her number doesn't mean **** if you don't use it. Do it now. Go. 1
preraph Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Presumably you can text her since she can text you. Text her. Say "Remember me from ___? Sorry, I've been out of town for awhile. Let's go dancing Friday!" And listen, I'm not your mother, but twice you referred to instances that you were too wasted to be in control of yourself or remember things. You need to put a lid on that pronto.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Yeah... A guy should always be in control of his liquor around the ladies you're interested in. You want to stay one step ahead of them
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