theonlyjuan Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Another relationship gone haha I am not even worried about how I am going to cope, my last brekup really showed me how strong I am. Gonna get good and bad days, things are going to remind me of her but life goes on. I did everything I wanted to do during my last breakup including the career I wanted. It's a nice thought to know I will always have that and can just throw myself into working. If this is your first or toughest, things will get better and you will find someone else. It doesn't mean the next will be the right one but who knows. Enjoy yourself, spoil yourself and do everything that makes you happy. Find that positives in everything. Here are mine 1) I have all the time in the world to do what I want 2) It will make me concentrate on my career 3) I will get into great shape again with no distractions As weird as this may sound I miss my last post breakup era. I really ended up being so happy and confident and found who I am. Don't let it beat you down 1
smellysocksuni Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 Great words! Glad to hear you're stronger and a better person.
marimari Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 I am glad that you are a stronger person, and your words encourages me. You are really aware of yourself and rational, whicn is important. But I want to know, how did the last break up show you that you are strong? In practise I mean? I am just wondering, am I stronger or do I need more time to be a stronger person.
Chi townD Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 As weird as this may sound I miss my last post breakup era. I really ended up being so happy and confident and found who I am. I've been here a while and I think I've heard everything, this is a new one. I don't think I've EVER heard anyone say they're looking forward to post break up! LOL! That's new Gold star Sir! 1
ZiggyZoo Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 I've been here a while and I think I've heard everything, this is a new one. I don't think I've EVER heard anyone say they're looking forward to post break up! LOL! That's new Gold star Sir! Ha, I know exactly where he's coming from. I am always at my best post-breakup, when I take new classes, exercise, eat well. If only I could have the discipline to do all this with out the break-up. It's probably even better without the heartbreak, huh?
Author theonlyjuan Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 I am glad that you are a stronger person, and your words encourages me. You are really aware of yourself and rational, whicn is important. But I want to know, how did the last break up show you that you are strong? In practise I mean? I am just wondering, am I stronger or do I need more time to be a stronger person. If you can keep to NC you will get stronger. You will learn some new life coping tools and end up being stronger. I enjoyed being selfish and just concentrating on myself, it made a change from living my life for someone else 1
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