fred123 Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 if a girl or guy says their early like you a lot etc then surely it means they want to kiss you also. if i like a girl i want to kiss her and hold her and lie next to her etc. is it fair to say that? is it a good idea to say to the girl " if you like you me then you would want to kiss me etc etc otherwise its all bull****" what do people think?
mammasita Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 The way you phrase that makes me question your maturity and wonder how old you are..... ......but in general, yes....Any relationship where there is no attraction nor physical intimacy is just a friendship. Bottom line is this: You usually have to be attracted to someone to want to kiss them intimately. Saying "I really like you a lot" doesn't always mean that someone is attracted to you. I could say I really like you a lot and kiss you on the cheek and never be attracted to you.
Erised Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 is it a good idea to say to the girl " if you like you me then you would want to kiss me etc etc otherwise its all bull****" ? Yea, girls dig being pressured into physical intimacy with emotional blackmail. Doesn't everyone? 1
carhill Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 if a girl or guy says their early like you a lot etc then surely it means they want to kiss you also. if i like a girl i want to kiss her and hold her and lie next to her etc. Talking is words. Actions can support or refute those words. Human interactions are usually based on a confluence of both. is it fair to say that? Fair? IMO, I'd likely consider it speculative. Of course, that's predicated on a long life and having been married. is it a good idea to say to the girl " if you like you me then you would want to kiss me etc etc otherwise its all bull****" IMO, probably not. Perhaps find a more engaging way of getting your point across, one which encourages positive actions. Or, say nothing and do. Express your like. what do people think? Keep showing up until someone says no or one of you dies. Associations are voluntary. If you don't want to show up, don't.
Buddhist Posted February 23, 2015 Posted February 23, 2015 I think you should give up identifying with your penis as if it's the be all and end all in life.
Author fred123 Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 if i like a girl i want to kiss her. if i don't like her i wouldn't want to kiss her. also im assuming that if i really like a girl I'm attracted to her. that goes without saying ?
todreaminblue Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 i like things to happen naturally i dont like feeling forced to do anything its got to happen because i want it to happen...most guys i have been with have been friends of mine and known my history all of them stole kisses......but the time was right......i felt relaxed and comfortable with them and i allowed them close enough to kiss me as in body to body touching...... if its not time ill slant the kiss off...and ill kiss their cheek......if its right i allow them to kiss me......so even though they stole the kiss.....i was ready in some form for that kiss.... dont force anything on a woman based on what you want to happen .....think of her..know her well enough to see she is open to you kissing her.......kisses are more intimate sometimes than sex for some women......deb
preraph Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Just because someone says they like you doesn't mean they feel they know you well enough, trust you well enough, or are comfortable enough yet to want to kiss you. There are steps and stages. Go out with the girl, show her a good time. Dance with her. Maybe hold hands and see how that goes, if she likes it or not. Don't TALK about kissing. That's something you do and not something you talk about. You do it when you both are feeling cozy and she is used to just you holding her hand or having your arm around her shoulder and being with you. You will know if she is headed that way because she'll be wanting to be close to you. Don't grope. That's for grownups. 1
Author fred123 Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 Just because someone says they like you doesn't mean they feel they know you well enough, trust you well enough, or are comfortable enough yet to want to kiss you. There are steps and stages. Go out with the girl, show her a good time. Dance with her. Maybe hold hands and see how that goes, if she likes it or not. Don't TALK about kissing. That's something you do and not something you talk about. You do it when you both are feeling cozy and she is used to just you holding her hand or having your arm around her shoulder and being with you. You will know if she is headed that way because she'll be wanting to be close to you. Don't grope. That's for grownups. im 26 btw. surely if she says she really likes me a lot she would probably think about kisisng. she wouldnt mind me kissing if i went in for the kiss?
todreaminblue Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 Just because someone says they like you doesn't mean they feel they know you well enough, trust you well enough, or are comfortable enough yet to want to kiss you. There are steps and stages. Go out with the girl, show her a good time. Dance with her. Maybe hold hands and see how that goes, if she likes it or not. Don't TALK about kissing. That's something you do and not something you talk about. You do it when you both are feeling cozy and she is used to just you holding her hand or having your arm around her shoulder and being with you. You will know if she is headed that way because she'll be wanting to be close to you. Don't grope. That's for grownups. i agree with all you say preraph very thoughtful and well put......... except groping shouldnt be done no matter how grown up you are....groping to me implies a lack of respect for the person you are doing it too...were you kidding?....deb
irresolute Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 What...really? I like you means you're someone the other person likes to spend some time, or kiss you, or sleep with you, or nothing at all. It has so many meanings... Someone told me he liked me and had no meaning at all.
Author fred123 Posted February 24, 2015 Author Posted February 24, 2015 What...really? I like you means you're someone the other person likes to spend some time, or kiss you, or sleep with you, or nothing at all. It has so many meanings... Someone told me he liked me and had no meaning at all. so irresolute when a guy says he really likes you what do you or any other girl take that to mean?
ivionthenet Posted February 24, 2015 Posted February 24, 2015 if i like a girl i want to kiss her. if i don't like her i wouldn't want to kiss her. Who said that guys are complicated?
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