Hija77 Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Just don't get caught up in the pattern. The next time you see substance abuse red flags, you'll know to run. My ex wasn't physically or verbally abusive, but what he did to my head was FOR REAL. Don't let yourself get caught back up. You'll always be 2nd best. That's to the weed, and to whatever fools he smokes it with. He'll keep ruining telationships. Even if he finds another pothead. It won't work.
Author imss_1 Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 Thank you so much for the advice, I really appreciate it. I'm ending things tomorrow & will update the thread then. 1
Author imss_1 Posted February 28, 2015 Author Posted February 28, 2015 Hey everyone, just wanted to give you all an update: I met up with the guy in question on Thursday and I ended our relationship face to face. As expected, he just looked very hurt but didn't offer to quit smoking and just said he felt it would be 'hard' for him to do that. I left him after giving back his stuff and we haven't spoken since. Thank you all for your advice on this thread, especially Hija77 - I really struggled to end this for some reason and really needed some sense talked into me. I agree with the sentiment that this was likely a blessing in disguise and look forward to seeing whats coming in the future for me.
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